A Weird Public Announcement
[ 27 July 2008 ]
Dear nonpareils,
It feels really odd to be writing this in such a public forum, but I think it has to be done. So here goes.
While I was in New York, my relationship with Simon came to an end. There was no drama or insanity; it was just the right time. It’s a very strange feeling to be ending things with my best friend of 2 years. He is an amazing person & I wish him all the happiness in the world.
On Monday I’m flying back to Melbourne, where I am going to spend a couple of days going through my stuff. While I do that, I’m going to be staying with a friend — where my internet access will be limited. After that, I’m flying to Wellington to take an extended sabbatical while I wait for my immigration stuff to go through. My next stop is still New York, as planned… Except this time, I’m doing it alone! SQUEAL!
So if iCiNG is a little slow for the next week or so, I hope you understand that I really have my plate full right now getting my life in order! iCiNG is always my first priority but sometimes the day-to-day cannot be avoided!
Thanks for sticking with me & for understanding!
Love letters & feather headdresses,
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Best of luck to you Gala, I’m happy for you that things ended on such good terms as most of the time there can be so much animosity between exes.
“i believe that everything happens for a reason. people change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together” – marilyn monroe
I hope this next transition in your life goes smoothly. Ending relationships is never easy but when you know, well you KNOW. Doesn’t make it any easier though!
Take care and all the time you need for yourself. You deserve it.
Good luck with immigration, Gala! I partook in the process in going from the U.S. to Canada. Be patient with yourself, others, & the process. :]
We’ll stick to you like glue! :) I’m sorry you will be gone from NYC, as I will be there in early August to visit my sister – maybe there are other nonpareils there that I can meet? Anyone?
Good luck with all that immigration stuff! Best wishes to you and Simon, and we can’t wait ‘til you come back! hug
I thought that took a lot of gusto to announce that to a world of people. I think a sabbatical to NZ to be with family sounds like the perfect thing! Have a fabulous time.
Gala I wish you all the best! do let us know if you get a new p.o. box (I’ve found a postcard that reminds me of you).
Sorry to hear about the end of your relationship with Simon, but I can’t say I’m all that terribly surprised – there is an incredible amount of change happening in your life right now and everything gets a shake-up at such times. I know you’ll be fine as you make the transition to the next phase of your life. Have a great time with your family and best of luck with your NYC plans (though we’ll miss you here in Australia).
hey gala,
time heals a heartbreak so take all the time you need. we would not want to see you unhappy because it would make us unhappy :)
It was SO weird to wake up to this post, as I couldn’t sleep last night and found myself wondering about your relationship with Simon. Not that it is any of my business, it was just in my mind for some reason!
Must be all that raw food making me super-sensitive and connected, haha.
Sorry to hear about Simon, Gala.
I think it’s quite obvious to all of us that you’re beginning a new, fresh, and exciting stage of life (and we get to go along for the ride too, woot!).
All the best to you, sistaaaa! You rock.
I have just had a 5-year relationship come to an end. I have moved from the city to be in the countryside with my parents for the time being. Being surrounded by the unconditional love of your folks is the best thing at times like these!
All the best to you, gorgeous Gala! BIG HUGS
ehugGood luck with everything hun.
Best wishes for your new life in New York City. The best cure for any break up is a fresh start. I think you’ll have a great time in NYC, and there are obviously plenty of (pleasant) distractions there!
Look forward to your future posts :-)
Dear Gala
I’m so sorry. I know that having even more piled on at this time can be overwhelming.
I’m happy for you. You are taking the steps to make the life you want to lead.
Obviously you have tons of support and ardent fans here. So you are sure to have as much (or little) help/attention as you could ever wish.
Much Luv
Poochie
I’m not good with words so I’ll just do this and be done with it before I make an ass of myself
♥
We’re here to stay :D
Best of luck with everything Gala! It sounds like you’re going through a lot of changes so I hope it all works out smoothly. I’ll miss sharing a country with you!
Big sparkley kisses,
L.
be well darling. Bless you for being such a mature and thoughtful writer about the love you have experienced and the bright future you have ahead.
I’m sending you hugs and cupcakes via the internet. I wish you the best of luck in this new exciting part of your life.
Mucho amor,
Alex
“Growth is the only evidence of life.” ~John Henry Newman, Apologia pro vita sua, 1864
“Time is a dressmaker specializing in alterations.” ~Faith Baldwin
You are, as usual, moving through the world with grace Gala. I toast to you tonight!
* “Aish Karo!” (Enjoy!) (India). * “Аз жаргал хүсье!” (meaning “Wish you happiness”), spelled Az jargal husie, (Mongolia) * “Be Salamati!” (Iran) * “Dzer kenatse!” (Armenia) – Ձեր կենացը՜, meaning to you! * “Egészségedre!” (To your good health!) (Hungary). * “Eviva” (Maltese) * “Geiá mas” (Our health! ) (Greece) * “Gesondheid” (To your good health!) (South African Afrikaans) * “Gan Bei” (China) * “На здравје!” (To good health) (Republic of Macedonia) * “На здраве!” (To good health) (Bulgaria) * “Iechyd Da” (Wales) * “Kanpai” (Japan) * “Terviseks” (Estonia) meaning for health * “Kippis” (Finland) * “L’Chaim” (Israel and Jewish communities worldwide) * “Noroc!” (Good luck!) (Romania). * “Prost” (Germany and German-speaking places) * “Proost” (The Netherlands) * “Schol” (Flanders) * “skál” (Iceland). * “Skål”, in English often spelled “skol,” (Denmark, Norway, Sweden and parts of Finland, derives from the ancient viking habit of drinking mead out of the enemy’s skull.) * “Santé”, or “Chin”, or “Tchin! Tchin” (France and Québec) * “Sláinte” (Ireland and among speakers of Scots Gaelic) * “Salute” (or “alla salute”, “for health”), “prosit”, “Cin cin” * “Saúde” (Portugal and Lusophone countries) * “Salud” (Spanish) * “Wihayeo”, or “Geonbae” (Korea). * “Na zdraví”, (to your health) (Czech Republic). * “Na zdrowie” (Poland). * “За вас!”, (Russia). * “Şerefe” (To honor!) (Turkey). * “Salut!” (Catalan) or “Salut i Força al Canut!” * “Saliq!” (Azerbaijan) * “Letenachin”-Ethiopia (Colloquialism/Vulgar) * “Sǎnǎtate!” (To (your) good health!) (Romania). * “Topa!” (Meet [the glasses]!) (Basque).I’m so sorry Gala. I can imagine that this is a stressful time. Lots of internet hugs for you.
Good luck Lady! Kudos on moving to a new strange land all by yer lonesome!
Oh Gala, you have my sympathies. Break-ups are horrible and stressful things, even when you know it’s the right thing to do. Look after yourself, and I look forward to reading more of your amazing work soon. xoxo
I feel honored that you shared this news with us. As I have become familiar with you and your blog, I know that you believe that things happen for a reason. As you stated, Simon is an amazing person and I am sure that you learned a lot from him and he from you.
Best of luck to you!
Gala, sorry to hear about you & Simon but I guess these things happen for a reason huh!? Good luck although I’m sure you won’t need it
xoxoxox
ps; you’re very brave revealing this on iCiNG but remember we’re all very supportive of you & your work, so love & light!
Gala Darling, you seem such an incredibly strong person, so I know you will be fine… but I am glad you are going to take some time for yourself to relax and recharge and all that—you spend so much time doing stuff for others you deserve it! Enjoy your family, and your break, and we will be waiting here for you when you get back :) xxxxxx
To a new chapter FULL of adventure! I’ll be thinking of you. Hugs, Rachel
Best of luck to you – have a safe flight home
While it’s sad to hear of your split with Simon, I’m glad there was no drama. I hope you have a safe flight! And I wish you the best of luck with your move to NYC!
Best wishes, Gala. You’re an amazing woman; such an inspiration.
“Now he’s got a best friend instead of a wife, but he feels like he stole the best years of her life.”
Brave & beautiful Gala, cheers to you and your next great adventure.
So very much love and best wishes for you ALWAYS, dear Gala!!! Love you so much, you are the most amazing, kind, creative soul!
Love 4 U Always, Love, Love, Love…it’s all I have to give…
Kendra Jacklyn
good luck.. i hope it is as exciting and rewarding as possible!
Good luck babydoll.
You know we love ya!
=]
Much love and many cupcakes from back here in New York. I have total faith in you, and know that you are consistently moving in a better direction for yourself.
xoxo!
What a time of change, you certainly are equipped with the right attitude to meet it though.
It’s sad to hear you’re leaving Australia!
I wish you the best of luck Gala!
Loads of love from Mexico n_n.
Hey Gala… it is as it is. And that is neither good nor bad it just is. You put a huge amount of love out into the world via your blog and your passion to inspire people and that will come/does come back to you! And like Grom said we’re here to stay! Be well. :)
Gala,
I broke up with my long-term boyfriend about a month ago too. Again, not much drama or insanity but it is still sad.
Hope your trip helps you clear your head and get ready for the SUPER NEW EXCITING NEW YORK phase that’s next. :) I wish you so much happiness, your blog inspires me!
ML
awwwww…i had a feeling this had happened during you nyc adventure, but props to you for being brave enough to do what you know is right! i have held onto relationships well past their expiration date & always regretted not following my heart & intuition in the first place. have a safe flight & a wonderful vacation/life layover with your family!
Big hugs to you honey. Mwah!
As long as you are happy and stay strong and true to what you want, Gala, happiness is all that matters ;D
Lots of love being sent your way! Just make sure to take some time out for yourself. All these changes can make a girl’s head spin! :)
Gala, while you have been in New York you have been radiating positivity, independence and happiness. It can be seen in all your amazing photos, and even in your writing. You are in your element, and although there is much more to life than meets the eye, and I might me completely off base, but it seems like this might be an adventure that you need to experience on your own. You are an inspiration, and I only hope that someday I meet my soulcity, and feel as at home as you feel in New York.
You’ve been here for us despite so many things changing in your life, so we will be here for you once you’ve taken some time for yourself.
xox
I know I’m echoing everyone else’s sentiments here, but I’m so, so sorry. And I’m glad things are so amiable between you two. But, oh, Gala. I’m sorry.
Take all the sabbatical you need, and good luck for all the gorgeous, massive changes ahead. They will be amazing.
All my love.
hearts and stars your way, gala!
xo
gah, i feel super selfish for wondering why iCiNG has been slow lately…i’m so sorry. i feel like i’ve been inconsiderate because i forgot for a moment that of course you have a life outside of us. good luck with the break you are taking && as i’m sure you know, you have a lot of friends here for support.
lots of love
miss gala, if you’d like good internet access in melbourne and your friend’s place is south of the river, come work at my place! I freelance from home and adore co-working. Plus, I’m an editor/writer/typesetter, so if you need anything proofread… ;) Cupcake party!
Seriously. :)
When I read this I actually felt dumped. I’m glad that you are so strong to know what you want in life, and able to go on with the next chapter in your journey. We all love and care so much about you, and the iCiNG community will always be here to catch you when you fall.
hugs
have a wonderful cupcake party as queen vee said or some retail therapy with a pal.
Go Gala!
I love you!
Going through changes is good.
little kiss.
It’s like your life has done this incredible, exciting 360 since I started reading. I wish you all the best on your trip back here and hope your move into NYC will be smooth and stylish and ultra-exciting. I’m looking forward to reading your latest posts. Have fun, my dear, and if I ever see you here in Melbourne, I’ll shout you a chai and some super-delicious cupcakes.
Sounds odd to say as i do not actually know you but I had a feeling that was going to happen…...good of you to share it with us all as it is extremely private.
You have a big group of people here who love what you do and i am sure even though a lot of us do not ‘know’ you we would all offer you some kind of support if you needed it…..You/iCiNG help us all so much after all!!!
Take care and keep doing what you do cos you do it great xxx
PS-You ever feeling like coming to London then remember you have a huge amount of girls you love ya here!
we heart you gala! best of luck
hugs
All the best, we’ll miss you though!
xxx
Best of luck in this new stage of your life- Everything happens for a reason and I am sure you are looking forward to the exciting challenges your new start will bring! Enjoy your break and of course we will all still be here when you come back!
...not to be prematurely trumpeting a new dawn but at least you & Nubby CAN go get married in hawaii now :Pv Hope you’re doing okay & the next few weeks getting you & your gear sorted out aren’t too difficult.
i’m so sorry to hear that, love! but it’s good that you’re coping well & the move to new york is certainly something to look forward to!!!
drop me a line if you’d like to catch up when you’re in wellington!
xx
Good luck with the immigration thing…i remember immigrating from Ireland to the US when I was little, we had a hell of a time going about it. You’ll love it though, I know you will!
sending you lots of luvs…
Good luck for the next phase of your life, darling one. You have been looking luminous in New York – literally, your skin is glowing. I am so glad NYC has been so good to you…it seems like you have been having a blast being the best Gala you can. Go you. You’ve got a lot of strength. I find creativity flows like mad in such life transition phases, I wonder if you will too. If you have a stop off in Sydney on your travels, you are most welcome to stay and make the most of my wireless. I know a great cupcake store nearby :)
Keep shining, gorgeous!
xoxo
Dearest Gala,
I must say, the best way to get through a breakup is to do something completely and utterly radical and independent. And I’m postive, Gala, that you won’t have any trouble doing so.
Tons of love and best wishes doll!
xo
Everybody has already said such nice things, I don’t want to be repetitive, so I’ll just send thoughts of hugs and cupcakes. Take good care of yourself on your break and we’ll all be here for you when you get back.
It’s great to see all these amazing comments to you, because you truly deserve it.
Good luck to you Gala and take all the time you need. We’ll all be here waiting :)
something in the water, huh?! as you said to me, you are strong & magnificent, & you’ll be ok. i don’t really have many words right now, but i’m thinking about you, honey, & sending you lots of love. x
I had a feeling that this would happen, as you’ve obviously fallen in love with another: New York!
Best of luck with everything, and we can always (re)read the archive in the meantime ^^
Positive thoughts radiating your way for what the future will bring you xx
Thank you so much for sharing that with all of us who read your blog! It definitely took some guts letting so many people know that something in your life has come to an end like that.
My boyfriend broke up with me not even a week ago and it hurts quite a lot even though we are still really good friends. Reading your post has made me feel so much better – just to know there is someone else going through something so similar.
Thank you again Gala, and all the best!
xo
Take care chickadee! I hope you have a safe trip home and that all your plans for moving to NY fall into place easily for you! Everything happens for a reason and we are all the stage of our lives that we are supposed to be at :) I know you know that already, but I find it helps to be reminded every now and then! Lots of love and pixie kisses xxx
so now you can cover NZ fashion week ….let me know if thats of interest and I will get you tickets to my shows
good luck, sounds like you don’t need it thought! i warn you about welly though, bring coats. we’re having horrendous weather :(!!
thats a fab idea sarah jane!! gala should come up to auckland for fashion week!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
I more and more believe that I found you for a reason. The coincidence that you would announce your new single life on the very eve of my best friend and live in boyfriend breaking up with me is just unreal. Although in my case I’m devestated to loose the relationship to my man. I will try my best to think about what you would do and keep the positive spirit that you are with me at all time through this.
Thank you Gala for showing me a way to a happier life.
Anna, I believe very much the same thing! Gala, just yesterday (the same day you posted this) things ended between me and my boyfriend and best friend of two years. While it’s hurtful and difficult, I am also SO excited about being single, about new beginnings, and going after what I want for a change. I hope that you are seeing things the same way, all the best! And thank you for this wonderful site, a bit of positive thinking is exactly what I need!
good luck darling girl!
i am glad you are excited about your new phase of life! i’m sorry to see you leave australia though, boo.
Wow, that took courage! You are so inspiring. And absolutely everything happens for a reason. Good Luck Gala. We’ll stand by youuuuuuu We’ll stand by you ok enough :)
Wellington!? Pfft come to Auckland! We’ll go shopping and drink cinnamon pear cocktails :-)
XX
Gala you are so beautiful.
I don’t just speak for myself when i say you have added so much to my day to day life, altered my thought processes and provided a new outlook on everything. I truly wish you the best of everything that happens over the coming weeks, i’ll be thinking of you and sending positive thought vibes. You are so so so amazing.
Good luck with the immigration, and with everything else. You are so mature and inspiring, and we all love you for it, Gala.
I just want to say how much Icing has helped me… being a freaky 16 year old who def does not conform- this is my literal (excuse the pun) icing on the cake… all the time i had pressure to not be who i really am to make others happy… when really its all about my own hapiness and self growth. Gala, you make the world a better place. You’ve always been here for us, now its our turn to be there for you. :) Even if you didnt post for a month that wld give me time to re read all my favourite articles. :)
you shall love your crooked neighbour with your crooked heart.Best of luck Gala XoX.
Had such a crazy feeling this had happened, though heaven knows its none of anyones business. Good luck with your move to New York. It really seems to suit you and I’m sure everything will fall into place.
Everything comes at the right time you know that.
Everything is and will be all right. We all love you and have your back.
It seems to be a time for transitions.
All of my best wishes!
take care, cherry xxx
best of luck to you gala. i’m glad that if things had to end, that they ended on good terms for you and simon.
sorry you had to put this out there on your blog as that must have been difficult for you.
big love to you gorgeous girl!
oh gala, i’m wishing you the best of luck! you’re no. 1! lots of kisses!!
I know I’m just one voice in the chorus, but just wanted to say that you’re fabulous, you’re strong, and you’ll get through this. Do whatever you need to do, we’re here for you whatever happens. Your future is so bright and brimming with possibility and opportunity. You have nothing to hold you back. Go for it!!! Take care of yourself xox
Best of luck Gala. xx
I think you should come to Auckland too! Perhaps a non-pareil cupcake party in the Domain? (if the weather will let us!) ;)
You’re sounding very positive – and that’s good to hear! Yucky feelings of sadness and bitterness will poison the changes you are about to make in your life – and they sound great!
=) good luck with everything!
Live your life, do your thing, sing from the rooftops and breathe in the myth. Gala, we’re all staying fixed here, waiting for your next dollop of wisdom and smile-inducing commentary.
I know that whatever you do next will be amazing and delightful. Everything happens for a reason.
Safe journey! Thinking of you! B x
Funny, I was actually wondering why there was a lack of mention of Simon’s name during most of your New York stay… it all makes sense now.
I wish you both all the best in moving forward. Onward and upwards!
I am sad you won’t be living in Melbourne anymore, even though I never met you while you were here, it still felt nice knowing we lived in the same city. I was even going to suggest to organise a Melbourne iCing meet-up, but I guess that won’t happen anymore!
Good luck with everything, you will be in my thoughts xx
Hey Gala, I kind of had a wee inkling maybe something was amiss … I’m very touched that you felt you could share with the whole icing community though. You know we all love you and wish you the very best happy-ness as you go into the next uber-exciting phase in your life!
“Life if like a bus- you get on you get off, and sometimes you stick your hand in the old chewing gum stuck under your seat. But it comes off.”
xx
All the best Gala and I hope whatever comes next is another amazing adventure and experience. :) x
i wish you all the best of luck dear gala… a big hug from an italian girl living in vienna…
This isn’t so wierd, Thanks for keeping us informed, makes me feel like we’re all in a big super-stylish secret club when you tell us little details like that! ;)
And I don’t think your doing it alone – remember? The equivalent of the population of New Zealand has been through here! Every single one of us is here and you can bet that no matter what happens we’ll all be commenting and here to share the laughs with!
Vixxie.
I’m sulking a little because I just realised we will be in melbourne at the same time, but I wont get to meet with you because it’s only a stopover for 5 hours. So now I’ll have to wait until I get to NYC.....
sigh I’ll just continue my adoration from afar.
For someone going through so much change you have things so well together – great job!
Oh! I’m sorry! good luck!! we love you.
Though some of us non-pareils caught the notion, thank you for being open and sharing with us.
Good luck with everything!
I also kind of got a feeling about it, I even checked for mentions of simon in TILT LOL. I then saw his status on GI2MR. I think the way you two have been so calm and accepting of each other, and each other’s potential and individuality throughout your relationship and through now, is so, so inspiring. Keep up the good work, and that’s just being you! I shall use the surprise me button on days when you have’t updated, so I can handle a wait. And that daily outfit photo in the next post(I am too lazy to go to that post) is sooooooo damn sexy, I want that whoole entire outfit, and your hair and your sultry expression!
Thank for your being so honest and open, you definitely have a lot of girls sending love and warm wishes your way. Take your time in getting everything sorted out; your nonpareils will be here no matter what!
I don’t know why, but I felt sad to hear. I hope you’re feeling good and things fall into place quickly.
I dont think its weird at all for you to announce that, if you think about it some of us, myself included read your blog everyday like its part of our daily routine so its almost like we know part of you anyway and like your a far away friend.
goodluck for your time in NZ, I’ll miss your daily regular posts x
It’s nice to hear that it wasn’t a harsh, difficult break up. I’ve always thought that relationships were something that help you reach where you’re supposed to be as a person, and although they don’t always work out, the effect that the individual has had on you basically can’t be erased.
I’m happy that you feel comfortable enough with us non-pareils to inform us!
Anyways, I wish you BOTH good luck in whatever life chucks at you next!
Hey Gala,
This may sond also a little weird but thanks for letting us all know! It makes me feel like you respect us readers that extra bit. So thank-you and good luck with… everything! Although I’m pretty sure you won’t even need it!
oh wow, I didn’t see that coming. I did thing the whole trip seperately was wierd but thought you had a plan… I hope you are really ok? you sound good so that is great. Be well my sweets and take care of yourself. Love is so strange sometimes, I wish you both all the best.
Miss Gala
A little sadden to hear the end to your relationship but then again all good byes bring a tear to my eye. But neverless the good thing is you know it was right time to part, which always makes it easier when you know its right inside. Sharing those intimate details about yourself such as that in your blog makes me as a reader feel more closer to you..
Will look forward to hearing more from you soon and awaiting for more of your adventures in the big apple. :)
lamour
Good luck with everything =)
good luck and carpe diem~ hugs!!
Sorry to hear that Gala – break ups are never fun. It’s great that you have such amazing things to look forward in your future though – NYC!
Thanks everyone for your support… It means a lot to me & I appreciate you all understanding that my mind is going to be a bit preoccupied for the next little while! Though I am really looking forward to being in NZ & knuckling down & doing a whoooole lot of writing…
sora — There are plenty of nonpareils in NYC... You should be a-okay!
Cassidy — I have one in NZ, I will update my info when I can!
amy — Yeah, a few people mentioned him in passing when we were going through all this, which was kind of uncanny… I think we are all connected much more than we think we are!
Rachel Radness! — Yeah, long distance is a bitch! Haha. I think it’s a good thing though, it showed me the truth of what was going on & what I needed to do. A blessing in disguise.
Missa — Thank you so much, sweetheart.
queen vee — That is a lovely offer, merci beaucoup!
kitten — That would be awesome, hee.
Katie — Haha. Nubs has a boyfriend… Sad huh? ;D
Jazial — NYC has been really good for me… It’s undeniable. I can’t wait to come back but at the same time I am also looking forward to having some chilled out time in NZ, just writing & getting my head sorted out & ready for this next amazing stage in my life!
Victoria — I’ll see what I can do ;D
Sarah Jane — Ooh, ahh! My friend Ana is showing & wants me to go along. Hee. I’ll let you know! I might be back in NYC in September, that’s the only thing!
Anna (Swede in shoe shop) — Oh honey! I’m so sorry. You’ll be okay… but you know that already. Lots of love!
Neptune — Eep, you too! But yes, being single is a great opportunity to reset your intentions & priorities! You’ll be a-okay!
Claudia — Haha! I can live in Wellington rent-free, though… Hahah!
Louise.C — Chances of me coming to Auckland are good — I have lots of friends there, fashion week is there & Timbaland is playing (!!!!!). I will let y’all know!
Kerry — Actually, a couple of girls in Melbourne have organised an iCiNG picnic which I’ll be posting about closer to the time (end of August). I won’t be around for it unfortunately but it will be an awesome chance for Melbourne nonpareils to hang out!
Miss Dot — Me being here alone was always part of the plan, but well, the rest of it just didn’t work out… It happens, I guess!
Gala, I had a feeling when you said you were coming back to New York in September that something was going on with your romantic life… I hope everything goes smoothly for you and I have no doubt that you will adapt to your single life with grace and charm as you do with everything else life throws your way. After all, as the song says, “Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.”
You know Gala, taking a little time for yourself right now will be totally understandable. I’ll look forward to you being back with us full time though!
As for Simon, I hope the two of you will at least be able to stay friends, since it seems as though he’s been a really important part of your life. No matter what though, I’ve always thought these things happen because they’re supposed to happen. You’re entering a completely new stage of your life soon, after all, and maybe you’re meant to be on your own for that!
we kinda figured since there was no mention of him in any post almost since the first days in US. but when its time to fly solo its time to fly solo!
Hey Gala. I know you’re gonna be alrighty. You’re amazing and brave and will take on this next stage with huge successes! Good luck my friend!
:)
Oh wow, Gala dear! What changes you are amidst and amuck!
It seems like everyone is going thru relationship breaks these days. Is that the curse of summer, or just the necessity of time? (Schmeh. Hell if I know.)
Anywho, sorry to hear of you and Mr. Simon. (However mutual it may be!) Best of luck, as always, though me dear!
Love and Otter wiggles!
Hello my darling!
I hope everything is going alright with you and I wish you the best of luck during your very exciting permanent move to New York! This must be a very stressful time for you with all of this stuff going on but I know you’ll pull through because, quite frankly, you’re Gala Darling and that’s just what you do. Plus, I’m sure you know that if it ever gets bad or you need anything at all, you have a huge following of nonpareils more than happy to step in and help you.
Best wishes!
Love,
Morgan
Like someone else said, things always happen for a reason… and well, I’m sure this is for the best.
I’m sorry if I’m not too great with comforting words, but I’d just like to reinforce the idea that we’ll always be here for you!
Good luck on your new beginnings, and new chapter of your life.
Pictures tell all.
Best adventures and experiences are made with an open heart.
Travel well.
Stay strong, you can do it girl!
This post tugged at my heart, Gala. Maybe it’s because you keep iCing such a positive place, always striking that inviting tone somewhere between intimacy and professionalism, and I bet that’s especially challenging when going through personal changes of this magnitude. I hope you have lots of caring people in real life (in fact, I’m sure you do!) to talk to about the difficult details right now.
Sending sweet thoughts your way,
Ruby
my heart kind of sank when i read that, but of course you will be more than ok, all will be awesome and i can’t wait to see what magic happens next! we are all so privileged to be in on your story and that you share some of your magic with us. i hope that doesn’t sound too insane. big hugs to you gala xoxox
I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m glad that it was no drama involved.
Good luck sweetie!
Ouch. I’ll be thinking of you, lady. Hopefully the new adventure on which you are about to embark will be just the thing to help you heal.
Gala! Good luck with everything! If anyone can handle all this, its definitely you!
I recently had a 2 year relationship end on me too.
For similar reasons of big changes in our lives, we realized that we were soon going to have to do the long distance thing and were both sensible enough to realize that it is a very hard commitment.
It hurt and took time to adjust but now im using this alone time an a opprotunity to grow a little and what perfect timing for you to post having a summer romance with yourself!
Such a tough wee cookie… (oops… cupcake…). I, like Amy who posted above, realised that there was being less said about Simon and I also noted his single status somewhere out there… Sorry to hear about your split.
Sounds like ANOTHER wonderful chapter in the life of our gorgeous Gala is about to begin! Pity you have to come home to Wellywood in such CRAP weather, but some time with the parentals would be great I’m sure! ‘esp. if you HAVE to go shopping with Mama… .. oh the pain… :)
I’ll put good thoughts out across the universe for your regathering in Melbourne and might bump into you on the Golden Mile (or at tempt!) sometime when the weather is good!
Safe travels, sweetie.
I am so sorry to hear about your breakup. It is never fun. I hope that the down time serves you well and that your return to NY is as speedy as possible. Have a safe trip and enjoy the downtime you deserve it. Getting the sh** together is never fun no matter where you are or what you are doing. Good luck and see ya soon. Much Love
Awwww possum!
On another note, if you’re back in Wellywood on the 16th August you should totally come and party it up at JD Samson!
I hope you’re eating loads of cupcakes. I am. I’m eating one right now in fact. Gooey sweet chocolateyness. Best breakfast EVER! Weetbix… pfffft. xo
♥ best of luck my dear!
Gala-
I actually had an inkling this was happening/happened. Big hugs to you and your journey ahead. I admire your independence.
Big hug! It must have been hard, but thank you for sharing with us – you know we care about you and want the best for you, even if we’ve never met you in person!
Enjoy your time back here in NZ – and I’d totally be up for a cupcake party in the Auckland Domain too :)
Best of luck getting everything sorted, and I’ll look forward to hearing about all the new and exciting adventures coming your way.
Best of luck, Gala. And NYC eagerly awaits your return. If you find yourself on the Upper West Side, give me a ring. I live about 5 blocks from a French Roast!
I love how you’re always so optimistic and easygoing! Have fun traveling, and stay strong!
Aw, Gala. That’s always hard, but kudos to you for handling it the way that you are. If anyone can grab a life transition by the horns and wrangle it like a bull, I’m sure it’s you. :P
hey gala let us wellingtonians know if you ever want to get together for some fun times and rondez vous.it would be fantastic to meet up with the legend in person!!!:)
i wish you all the best and reward your independence and your strong spirit!
kudos
im sorry about simon but you’re going to have a great time in nyc when you get there
Sending so much love and light your way Gala! We all love you and wish you the very best :)
I kind of feel bad saying this, but I had a weird preminition that you and simon would end. I’m sorry if,
i don’t know, i shouldn’t be saying this but I just kind of thought it would happen.
All my jealousy is towards you, living the dream in NYC!!!!
all the best xoxo
all the best Gala
love you heaps
xxoo
I’m sorry to hear about you and Simon. I hope the exciting things that you have planned for the near future will help to keep you positive. I wish you all the best with your immigration and I hope it goes as smoothly as you’d wish.
Take care, Gala :)
Best wishes,
Charlie xxx
I have had wonderful, friendly and peaceful relationships, too, and they always end when I leave to move somewhere else… but the main sign that it’s about to end is, oddly enough, when I start writing and telling other people how much I love my boyfriend. At that time, I start thinking about breaking up. It happened when I moved to Switzerland and again when I went to Africa and again when I moved to Tokyo. I noticed that you were writing more about Simon in your posts than usual. Interesting. Luckily I have no bad feelings towards any ex and I think it will be like that with you and Simon. You don’t seem like the type to cause negative feelings. I hope you guys will be friends again someday. Good luck with immigration. I wish you the best as usual.
Julie
I really admire that you don’t just talk about positivity, you actually live it when, what must be, heartbreaking things happen. My first thought when I read this was “wow, she really didn’t miss a beat” there were no visible signs that anything in your life was different. I know that’s your job, but it would have been very easy to be slightly less upbeat for a couple days.
anyway, you clearly have lots of love and support surrounding you. I have been sharing your excitement through your whole NYC adventure – if only!
much love xox
Oh honey, I’m sorry. It does sound like you’re doing fantastically well, so cheers for that!
But I do want to put out there that it’s OK to feel like crap for a bit when a really important part of your life ends or changes. Positivity is a wonderful goal, but feeling sad or mourning the past is a normal and healthy thing to do, and I hope you won’t beat yourself up if a few of those doldrum-y moments sneak in there.
xoxo,
Rachel
Sorry to hear that Gala…even though it wasn’t a messy end, it’s never easy. On the bright side, this seems like a really transitional time for you and there will be plenty of other things to occupy your focus! Maybe it was just the right timing. I like to think everything happens for the best, anyway…
I just went through a breakup last week, after about 8 months, and it was much messier than yours from the sound of things D: Ick. Never fun. But life goes on, right? And you are certainly a much more level headed than I am, so I’m sure you’ll be just fine.
Good luck with sorting everything out back home, and I hope your immigration dealings go smoothly. It will be wonderful to have you back in NY again soon! <3
Aw no! You sound quite positive so that’s a good thing :)
Hey Gala,
Thank-you for having the respect for your readers to share this piece of very personal news. I’m glad there is no nastiness between you and Simon – it sounds like you had a great relationship and will continue to do so, even if the dynamic changes a bit!
I split up with a fantastic guy just over two years ago. We also had lovely times together, and we’re still in touch, but I often had a feeling even when I was still with him that there were things in my life ahead of me that I wasn’t going to experience if I stayed being his girlfriend. I suspect your life is heading on a similar trajectory right now. It takes a lot of strength to come to the end of a relationship that is essentially good, but that for whatever reason is not the best thing for you at the time.
Anyway, lots of love to both you and Simon. And I’m looking forward to some posts from Wellywood – it’s my home town, and I miss it!
Oh, just when I am needing you most Gala. But, of course, you need you first, and that’s priority. I’m glad things weren’t like a soap opera. That is always the worst.
Good luck! And if Tings stayed fresh long distances, I would mail you some! They really are quite a delicacy.
Much love,
Cady
And by the way, if it makes you feel any better, I drive like a grandma but somehow failed my driving test.
A misunderstanding (which is way awkward when you don’t think yellow speed limit signs are laws, and you think they are suggestions) from Drivers Ed messed me up. A lot.
Its not fun…but it is a LITTLE funny…
The non-drama of this is extremly elegant.
Well on the bright side they’ve just recently opened up a cupcake counter here in wellington :] it’s in the old bank arcade inside smith the grocers and the cupcakes are super adorable, they have glitter and butterflies on them .they cure any case of the blues and you can taste the sparkles!
:]
all the best to you, gala! stay strong, and stay true to your darling self, miss darling.
Gala,
I’ve become very fond of you — you are graceful and full of life. I am so glad to see you looking at this phase of your life as the beginning of something new and wonderful.
I wish all relationships could end as amicably as yours did.
Best of luck!
It sounds like you really ‘found yourself’ while you were in NYC. People grow and change, and its all for the better! Don’t stay away from Icing too long, but know that we will all be here waiting when you come back :)
PS I bought some of those Sparkley pens you got in NYC, I got them on ebay sent from o/s and they are fabulous – thank you
Gala, I have been completely absent from commenting on here for a while (new job, new country, etc..), but I just want to give my 2 cents and say that, well, you are just an amazing girl and I’m really glad to hear you&your ex boyfriend are on such good terms!I found your blog right after my own 2+ years relationship had ended, & you helped me through it more than I thought any blog ever could, so I’m sure you’ll do great on this new phase of your life that’s just beginning. Lots of love!
PS & are you ever really alone in NYC?!I don’t think so:)
hey gala,
this is weird for me as i had the same thing happen at the same time as you. i was in europe for the month of july and my 4 yr relationship ended, my choice, and its weird as people were expecting an engagement announcement or something, and i still havent worked out how to tell my blog or my friends and i just cant be bothered telling the whole story as i am ok, but i know i am gonna get millions of ‘are you ok’s?’ enough to make me wonder if i AM ok.. hehe
anyway i wish you the best… i too flew back from europe on friday and i got the jet lag you missed out on hehe…
i am moving my stuff from sydney back to my home town melbourne, so i might cross paths with you one day. who knows!
anyway.. love and kisses.. xox
d
GALA!
Girl, it’s been soooo long…But ur website is always a breath of fresh air for me. I don’t think you’ll ever fully grasp how much it helps many of us to read your thoughs, opinions and chronicles of your life’s events.
It’s always sad when things end, but I’m glad that it did in such a mature, positive manner. I’m sure Simon is a great guy, and since you’re an incredible woman, there is no doubt that great things are in store for both of you, in every aspect.
For me, change is sometimes confusing and it makes me feel a bit anxious, but I’ve also come to discover that it’s always – ALWAYS – for the best.
Abrazos, besos & AMOR, MUCHO AMOR!!!
dearest gala,
wishing you all the best for this new phase of your life. i only wish i was as mature when my life took a massive turn and i’m still picking up the pieces. icing brought back my enthusiasm in little things i had forgotten i loved. you are a fabulous woman gala and i hope this immigration issue gets solved for you very soon and the future ahead of you is filled with smiles, frosted with new discoveries and sprinkled with surprises.
take care.
Dearest Gala,
I was surprised i guess, by the announcement..although it was a little sad. But what am saying???!!! U have NEW YORK!!!! Wow!! haha…. heres wishing you the greatest in everything that you do. Lots of love from this side of the world!I just read your announcement and wish you all the best! I just broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago…