The Fear! What To Do If Thinking About Your Bank Balance Gives You Anxiety

Here’s a pill that might be hard to swallow: how abundant you feel depends entirely on your mindset. Let me say that in another way. No matter how much money you make, no matter what your savings account looks like, and no matter how many opportunities come your way, the only thing that will make you feel ABUNDANT is your attitude. The difference between feeling wealthy and feeling poor is in your head.

A few different scenarios to ponder:

You could be sitting on $1,000,000 but feel like crap: constantly looking around at everyone else, focussing on what you don’t have, obsessing over the “lack” in your life.

You could have a thriving business that makes plenty of money, but because you don’t feel good about how you earn it, you spend everything as soon as it hits your bank account, leaving you feeling insecure and uncertain.

You might be stuck at an earning plateau, unable to make more, because deep down, you don’t feel like you deserve it.

You might be constantly spinning your wheels, feeling terrified of checking your bank balance, convinced that there will never be enough money for you to feel safe… Because your mindset is one of fear and scarcity.

If you don’t think this is a radical self love problem, you’re kidding yourself!

We all have money blocks. No matter who you are, and no matter how much self-improvement you’ve done, the one thing that trips absolutely all of us up is the subject of cold hard cash.

Yesterday, I jumped on Facebook to talk about how our radical self love levels affect our bank balance, and money guilt and shame. Then I led everyone watching through an exercise to clear anxiety and remove those pervasive thoughts that “there is never enough!” Afterwards, everyone was blown away. This technique really works. (I don’t teach anything that doesn’t!)


We all want more money in the bank, so it makes sense that I’ve been getting a lot of questions about Radical Rituals: Abundance, my brand new class that is ALL about money, honey! I’ve been posting as many of the answers as I can on my Instagram Stories — here’s a taste.

Radical Rituals: Abundance gets started on September 20th (the Virgo New Moon!), and I’m dying to kick it off! I have so many techniques, rituals, and routines that are going to help you clean up your money mindset so that you can manifest money and feel safe. 

As always, I welcome your questions! Send me an email or a DM and I’ll get right back to you.

Eternal love,


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