TRANSFORM HOW YOU SEE THE WORLD — AND YOURSELF — IN SIX WEEKS
Because you deserve to love your life, truly, madly, deeply…
And I can show you how to do it.
No matter what the standards of beauty might be; no matter what you’ve been told by friends, family, or society; no matter how many times you measure yourself against others and feel like you come up short; no matter how many times you feel devastated by defeat; know this: you are magnificent.
Baby, you’re glorious. You’re intelligent, thoughtful, creative, curious, and beautiful. It’s time that you woke up and recognised it. Telling yourself anything different is a waste of time… And a lie.
Women are powerful. You and me, babe, we are magical. We can create and destroy with the curve of our hips, with the flick of our wrist. This is the moment for you to step into that knowledge; to claim your power.
It’s time to explode those tired old myths you tell yourself. It’s time to destroy your stories. And it’s time to stop arguing for your limitations, because as we all know, when you argue for your limitations, sure enough, they’re yours.
You are not stuck. You don’t have to live some average, soul-sucking existence. You don’t have to be the same person you’ve always been.
How do I know?
Because I transformed my life.
In 2006, I couldn’t have been more different than the person I am today. I hated my life… And myself. I was suffering from depression, and even worse than that, I was destroying my body with an eating disorder, which took up 95% of my mental capacity. I could barely think about anything else.
It wasn’t until I started to make some big adjustments — both in how I treated myself, and the way I looked at the world — that things began to change. And best of all, the changes started to happen quickly. It felt like nothing short of a miracle, but looking back, I can see it was as simple as taking consistent, positive action.
A lot of people talk about self-love, but very few of them have crawled from the pit of despair like I did. Trust me when I say I know how to change lives… Because mine couldn’t possibly look any different today.
Today, I live in New York City, my favourite place on Earth, with my incredible husband and our gorgeous dog. I run a massively successful six-figure business, which I started with a laptop! I write for a living, and I travel and teach all over the world.
When I think back on the girl I was — alone, depressed, and feeling stuck in New Zealand — it’s an incredible transformation. None of this would have been possible if I hadn’t decided to make some major changes in 2006.
You can make that same decision. You can make that choice to turn your life around. You can start today.
The real question is, if you don’t, what will your life look like this time next year?
“To change one’s life, start immediately, do it flamboyantly, no exceptions.” — William James
WHY IS RADICAL SELF LOVE IMPORTANT?
Self-love is the root of all good things. After all, right living comes from right thinking, and you can only “right think” when you’re being supportive and loving to yourself. It’s pretty simple: we should be our own best friend, not our wildest frenemy!
When you love yourself, you…
Are more ambitious, and believe you can achieve your goals
Don’t fear life’s knocks, because you are less likely to give in to despair or defeat
Take bigger risks — and more creativity leads to more success and higher pay
Treat others with respect, meaning people treat YOU with respect too
Have enough confidence that you can attract a partner who is really right for you
Have a no bullshit policy, so people don’t walk all over you
Can articulate your opinions, resulting in more respect from others
Know that perfection is NOT the goal… And accept that you are doing the best you can
Feel more secure taking risks, so you can FINALLY live your dreams!
You probably know exactly what it’s like on the other side of the fence. When you’re not living in a state of radical self love, you feel like there’s just not that much that’s great about you. You might feel ashamed, embarrassed, guilty, sad or angry. You end up in unhappy relationships, stuck in dead-end jobs, and surrounded by toxic people, simply because you don’t believe you deserve any better. And worst of all? The cycle of self-defeating thoughts is a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more you think your life sucks, the more it sucks.
That is simply not good enough. You deserve to feel good, you deserve to feel smart and beautiful. Because you are. And we NEED you. We need you to live out loud, we need you to shine your light. We need the beauty that only you can bring to the world!
With Radical Self Love Bootcamp, you’ll become aware of your own magnificence… And it will change your life.
You don’t need to have a “perfect life” to love the way you exist in the world. You don’t need a “perfect body” to appreciate how you look (and have fun with it). You don’t need to BE PERFECT to enjoy your life and live it to the hilt.
This is not about trying to become an immaculate person. It’s not about dieting and turning your life into a miserable slog. It is about looking at your messiness and realising that you have an inherent beauty regardless. Radical self love is about seeing yourself as you truly are — with no delusions — and choosing to believe that you are pretty goddamn great. Your flaws are what make you beautiful.
In Radical Self Love Bootcamp, we’ll flip your perceptions. One of the major secrets of happiness is learning to see with new eyes, and it’s as easy as changing your mind. I’m going to show you exactly how to do it.
IS RADICAL SELF LOVE BOOTCAMP RIGHT FOR YOU?
Have you reached that point where you actually feel bored by your problems? Are you totally sick of the same old patterns repeating themselves over and over?
Do you want to be able to smile at your reflection in the mirror? Are you tired of obsessing over your flaws, and nitpicking how you look?
Do you feel burdened with comparisonitis? Do you look at others with envy, and feel like you always come up short? Do you sometimes wish you could just switch lives with someone else?
Is it time for a massive change? Are you ready to ditch your dead-end job and your obsession with unavailable romantic interests? Are you done with drama and mindless bullshit?
Do you know you need to start loving yourself, but are completely unsure of where to start? Are you looking for guidance and a step-by-step program that will lead the way?
Radical Self Love Bootcamp is a 6 week course in radical self love exploration. I will show you exactly what you need to do to go from self-loathing to wanting to kiss your own reflection.
It is the beginning of something beautiful, something no one else can ever take away from you: the start of a wonderful, sexy, wild, fabulous love affair with yourself. You are setting a new way of life into motion that will generate blessings. It is the first step towards living an ecstatic life.
“If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else?!” — RuPaul
AM I THE RIGHT TEACHER FOR YOU?
As Radical Self Love Bootcamp hasn’t been released yet, here are some testimonials from women who have worked with me in the past.
“Gala Darling seems to have magic following her everywhere, and is a true testament to what she teaches. Her 4 week, in-person class was absolutely amazing. Candles, sigils, manifesting, magic, and most important, love. It was a beautiful experience and I gained so much from it. I am now left full of inspiration to keep taking action to manifest my dreams. So much magic happened to everyone during the 4 weeks, it was insane. Gala IS love!” — Kiyomi Kobayashi
“I realised that I had been my own gatekeeper to authentic happiness for more than two-thirds of my life. I was the one who had crawled after men’s crumbs, feeling like I didn’t deserve any better. I was the one who constantly sabotaged herself, so that the light of my passion for life wouldn’t shine too bright (and maybe blind someone). Even though I had already done so much self-love work before buying this adventure, it showed me new paths to walk on and explore. I feel softer, more feminine, more grounded and just more “me” than I did before I started.” — Cat Bennis
“I was at the the start of my self love story. Now I understand my past mistakes as lessons. I’ve always been perfectly imperfect. I’m more confident in my abilities and sincerely believe in myself. The cool, confident woman that I’ve always wanted to become has always been in me. I learned that creative pursuits bring me straight to the present and open up so many opportunities. I understand that I should celebrate ALL my accomplishments. I’ve learned to accept compliments with a solid “thank you,” and continue on with my life, because they are life’s treats and I effing deserve them.” — Nicole Valdes
“As a professional entertainer it seemed like I was already living the dream, but I was so stressed out that I had foregone much of the magic in my life. Working through the modules gave me the mental space to examine my fears, re-evaluate my dreams, and look at the elements of my life (and business) that were no longer serving me. Each day, I felt that I could apply the lessons to any struggle I was facing. I feel confident that I can always change my life if needed. I was able to adjust my life and business to better fit my dreams!” — Caitlin “Spinnabel Lee” Matanle
“I have always been a classic self sabotager. But it wasn’t until you explained how this is rooted in fear and gave me some great, actionable tips on how to understand why it happens that I was able to make changes to overcome it. It also opened my eyes to new ideas like affirmations and manifesting. I have since incorporated my take on these into my own daily practices (I’m a nutritionist who specializes in fertility). I kept every email in a folder and refer back to them. Those emails are a treasured reference I’ll always have. You brought glitter and unicorn farts into my life and I love it.” — Kristy O’Kane
“Trying to balance work, personal life, and goals was sending me into a tailspin. After completing the course I feel both thoughtful and determined. I followed the course all the way through as I received each issue in my inbox, and just recently re-read the whole course again. I feel very powerful after finishing the final section. You have an internal power to conquer exactly what you like, and you have the power to put that into action whenever you’re ready (like…now!). I am one of those people with a very loud mind. I feel like this program has given me practical tools and tips to put my creative chatter into action.” — Lisa Griffin
HOW DOES BOOTCAMP WORK?
I created this course because despite the massive amount of information I’ve written about how to build self-esteem, feel confident, and rock your life, it can be difficult to know where to begin. It’s just like learning how to read: someone could walk you to a library, but you wouldn’t necessarily know what to do first, or where to start. That’s why Radical Self Love Bootcamp is so useful, and so powerful. It’s a step-by-step breakdown of the essential groundwork that leads the way to radical self love.
Radical self love might seem like an abstract, amorphous concept, but this is not some airy-fairy, woo-woo thing. It is a very real way of living your life. And while I’ll be sharing some guidelines and stories — both from my life and others’ — radical self love works best when it fits with YOUR lifestyle. Our definitions of radical self love will have differences, and that’s wonderful. Together, we will create something that works for YOU.
For six weeks, we’ll work together to design a highly individualised, very personal radical self love lifestyle that fills you with joy. You’ll learn daily rituals that will elevate your existence, discover tools and techniques to help you deal with stress and overwhelm, and create your own shortcuts to joy.
I believe life should feel exciting, full of adventure and colour. I believe that when you look in the mirror, you should feel contented, if not downright delighted. And I believe you should have so much confidence that it brings your demons to their knees.
That’s what we’re going to work on, side by side. Radical Self Love Bootcamp will show you, step-by-step, how to transform your view of yourself and the world. Before long, you’ll be the happiest person you know.
YOU WILL RECEIVE…
A thorough plan — complete with essays, worksheets, prompts, and audio files — that will show you EXACTLY what you need to do to start loving your life, and living out loud
18 lessons in total, which you’ll receive every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for six weeks, containing everything you need to make learning to love yourself easy (and fun!)
Audio interviews with babes who are rocking radical self love their way… Which you can listen to whenever you need a boost or a little inspiration! (You’ll also get transcripts of each interview.)
Oodles of encouragement, love, and support, to help keep you on track when the going gets tough!
ABOUT THE CREATOR
Gala Darling has been teaching self-love for close to a decade, and is the creator of the Radical Self Love Method, a powerful technique which helps women transform their lives. She is an author, teacher, and speaker. Her site, galadarling.com, helps over 1,000,000 women a month find their voice, live without fear, and fall in love with life.
Born in New Zealand, she moved to NYC with one suitcase when she was 24 years old, and used radical self love to heal from an eating disorder and depression.
Gala has been called “a spiritual revolutionary”, “the oracle of all things mystically glam”, and “a modern-day guru”. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, Teen Vogue, New Zealand Herald, Cosmopolitan, The Age, Elle, The Daily Telegraph, Sydney Morning Herald, and countless others. She has been interviewed on CBS, ABC News, and Hay House Radio. Gala has spoken about radical self love and entrepreneurship at SXSW Interactive, TEDxCMU, and dozens of other events across the world, in addition to lecturing at NYU (twice). A co-founder of The Blogcademy, she taught over 700 women how to build their business through their blog on several continents in a two-year period.
Gala has worn mouse ears in the Blue Lagoon, walked the runway at New York Fashion Week, and once danced naked in front of strangers at a self-esteem workshop. She believes in kale and crystals, goal-setting and gratitude, kaleidoscopic colour and kicking ass.
ABOUT RADICAL SELF LOVE BOOTCAMP
You’ll receive three emails a week, guiding you through the process. There are essays, audio files, worksheets, activities, and prompts that will teach you everything you need to get a good, solid foundation of radical self love. It’s just enough information to keep you on track and making progress, but not so much that you’ll be overwhelmed. (You’ll still have plenty of time to live your life!)
ARE YOU READY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE?!
What do I need to get started?
You will probably want a notebook in which to complete the exercises. You might also want access to a printer, so that you can print off your worksheets, but this is definitely not compulsory!
Can I get access to Radical Self Love Bootcamp on my phone?
There is so much material in Bootcamp — and the files are so big! — that I don’t recommend it. Use your computer to login and download the material, and then transfer it to your phone if you’d like!
How can I get the most out of my Radical Self Love Bootcamp experience?
Commit to doing the work as regularly as you can. Don’t just read the exercises: actually do them. You cannot think your way into radical self love — you have to act your way there!
I’m so excited! But my life is really busy. What if I can’t complete the activities on time?
No worries, babe! The course is yours to keep, so you can follow it at your own pace. Even if you’re away for two months, whenever you’re ready, you can look at the lessons and pick up where you left off.
I’m hearing-impaired. Will you have transcripts of your MP3s?
Yes, absolutely. Transcripts will be available for all audio files.
What is your refund policy?
As per industry standard, I don’t offer refunds on programs that can be downloaded and viewed. However, I’m confident that Radical Self Love Bootcamp will help you realise your own beauty and encourage you to fall in love with yourself. I can’t wait for you to get started!
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I love you,