iCiNG Archive

Issue yourself a Twitter challenge! Try using only song lyrics to express yourself; write all your tweets in haiku format; only write positive updates for a week; chart your good deeds; rhyme everything for a week, etc.

Daily Outfit -- 22nd November 2008

I went out last night with my friends Nick & Joel & had a great time. Here’s what I wore!

Carousel -- Week Ending 21st November 2008

Quality not quantity! It’s little but good, this week!

Things I Love Thursday

Here’s a list of things I am in love with this week — & it’s pretty travel-focussed, because I just (as in, a few hours ago) touched down in New Zealand!

What Should I Wear?

People often email me saying, “I’m (insert age) & (insert size), what should I wear?”

I Want To Be... A Dominatrix!

“I got into the sex industry around 18 through a perfect formation of the Great Upper-Middle Class White Girl Sex Worker Trifecta: Morbid curiosity, interest in sexuality, and “I can make HOW MUCH money!?”“

Carousel -- Week Ending 14th November 2008

The perfect way to kick off your weekend: with a bundle of procrastinatory glory!

Things I Love Thursday

Missouri, the City Museum, New York, New Zealand… !

Style Tips -- 11th November 2008

Take a photo of yourself looking really, really happy. Bonus points: link to it in the comments! (The comments on this article are awesome!)

I Want To Be... A Magazine Founder & Editor!

What is Coilhouse? It’s a love letter to alternative culture, in a time when alternative culture no longer exists. It’s the squirming, excitable brainchild of three amazing women: Meredith Yayanos, Nadya Lev & Zoetica Ebb. All three serve as editors, & all three bring their own unique experience & charms to the table.

What Do You Want To Do Before 2008 Ends?

What do you want to achieve before the end of the year? You have 55 days to make something amazing happen!

Carousel -- Week Ending 7th November 2008

Gary Vaynerchuk, sex news, Plasterdoll & more!

4th Grade TiLT

“I do TiLT with my students every Thursday and they love it. Here are a few responses that I will share…”

Things I Love Thursday

MK&A, Hallowe’en, Forgetting Sarah Marshall & PUMPKIN PIE! (So good!)

OhMiBod!

The OhMiBod isn’t a very attractive looking object — it looks more like the end of an elf’s pointy pink shoe than anything you might want near your underpants. But I promise you, once you attach this unusual gizmo to your iPod, stereo or even laptop, you will forgive it its cosmetic misgivings.

Last Night In New York City

I made a video of last night’s election excitement in New York City! It had to be seen to be believed.

Daily Outfit -- 4th November 2008

Yes, I am totally dressed up to celebrate. Tonight I am going to watch the elections on television with my friend & drink champagne. & then I am going out dancing!

Bookworms Are Sexy

Let’s talk about BOOKS! What have you read recently that you would recommend? What are you clamouring to get your hands on? What’s your favourite book of all time?

I Am Exhilarated & Terrified At The Same Time

Okay, America… Make us proud.

I Cheated On My Lover. Now What?

Let’s say you’re in a committed relationship, & have been for a while. 6 months have passed, maybe a year. Something happened — you met someone else, & you got involved. Now what? Should you come clean?

October 2008

Daily Outfit -- Hallowe'en Eve 2008

Hello, I am dressed as a rubber nun.

Carousel -- Week Ending 31st October 2008

A HUGE collection of links to tide you over!

I Can't Stop Shopping. Help Me!

“I used to laugh off the fact that I was always in debt and a bit of a shopaholic. Now I realise I actually have a very serious problem…”

What's Your Favourite Word?

Mine is a word from the Yagán language.

Daily Outfit -- 28th October 2008

This is what I wore to meet Mary-Kate & Ashley Olsen at their book signing at Barnes & Noble! Honestly, they are so adorable in person that it actually hurts.

Style Tips -- 28th October 2008

Drink from a can with a pink straw.

Gala Darling Loves Solestruck.com!

Yum. I love my new shoes.

Loulou Loves You Competition Winners!

With over 200 entries, Loulou totally had her work cut out for her!

I Want To Be... A Health Counsellor!

What’s it like to work as a health counsellor? Rachel tells us!

Quote Of The Day -- 25th October 2008

Go into your heart and find your own truth…

Carousel -- Week Ending 24th October 2008

A bumper edition of Carousel for ultimate procrastination! (I’m not joking…)

Daily Outfit -- 23rd October 2008

The triumphant return of bunny ears!

Things I Love Thursday

Bruno Dayan, Seth Godin, secret societies & mooooore!

iCiNG Playlist

My favourite songs of the moment — & yours!

Parisian Style

Allow yourself to get a little dishevelled. If you don’t know how to make that happen, get dressed, then have sex, then leave the house. Simple, non?!

100 Ways To Be A Love Letter To The Universe

Share your bliss. Turn up the music. Let go.

I Want To Be... A Lingerie Designer!

Loulou talks about creating a lingerie company & what she’s put into it — as well as beating Fibromyalgia & gaining the kudos of Vogue!

Carousel -- Week Ending 17th October 2008

Sex maps, great hotels, how to deal with being overwhelmed & major Cary Tennis adoration!

aerLUXE

aerLUXE is having a sale to end all sales!

Things I Love Thursday

Having friends that I respect, vegan ice-cream parlours, hour-long Shiatsu massages & meeting new people!

How To Beat Writer's Block

The most common piece of advice for anyone suffering writer’s block is “just write”. Of course, this is an excellent suggestion, because what you need is to get your flair back. So “just write” is all very well & good, but sometimes we need more prompting, more pushing, something bolder. How can you “just write” when you feel bored, frustrated & uninspired? Here are my suggestions for getting the better of the thing all writers dread.

I Want To Be... A Digital Marketing Manager!

Alice Judge-Talbot, as well as being super-sassy & cute with a drink in her hand, works for VICE magazine as their Digital Marketing Manager.

Daily Outfit -- 5th October 2008

Dressed up in Paris’ Catacombs!

Carousel -- Week Ending 10th October 2008

The Selby, Miss Dior Couture, Cake Wrecks & much more!

Style Tips -- 9th October 2008

Buy yourself a bunch of flowers which complement your hair.

Things I Love Thursday

It’s pretty Paris-centric this week, I’m afraid…

Question: What Would You Be Like If You Were The Opposite Sex?

If I was a boy, I would have jet black hair. I’d have way more tattoos than I do — probably two full sleeves, something on my neck & words across my knuckles. I’d be a writer (it attracts the ladies, haha!) & I’d definitely have a blog. How about you?

Daily Outfit -- 4th October 2008

This is me outside the Centre Pompidou on Saturday afternoon. Just after taking these photos, we went shopping along the Champs-Élysées, took photos during the sunset in front of the Arc de Triomphe, drank espresso beneath the Eiffel Tower as the light show glimmered above us & rode a fabulous, two-storey carousel!

Blog World Expo 2008

Before we left Las Vegas, Nubby & I were already discussing coming back for BWE09, which happens in October. We had such a fantastic time & are intending on making it into an annual pilgrimage!

I Want To Be... An Arts Administrator!

Ashe Mischief gives us the skinny on what it’s like to work in Arts Administration!

Daily Outfit -- 3rd October 2008

All black on a Parisian balcony!

Carousel -- Week Ending 3rd October 2008

An interview with Steve Pavlina, articles on food, TEDTalks & much more to keep you occupied!

Things I Love Thursday (Um, Friday?!)

A day late, because I just flew into Paris! (& boy, are my arms tired!) That was such a Dad joke. I’m sorry.

Floria Sigismondi

Floria is one of my favourite artists. She started off as a painter & illustrator, saying that she was transfixed by paintbrushes from an early age, but soon moved onto photography & music video direction.

Expiration Dating

“I’ve recently met a German foreign exchange student, and we really connect. I like him, but I’m afraid of getting involved since he’s going back to Germany in June, which means I’ll probably never see him again. Help?”

September 2008

A Reminder

Stop comparing yourself to other girls, no matter how pretty, clever, cool or cashed-up they are.

I Want To Be... A Poet!

Is it really possible to eke out a living in the literary world? As a poet, no less?! Just ask Claire!

Something Ridiculous For Your Sunday

A video of Nubby & I in Vegas!

Style Tips -- 27th September 2008

Come up with some new birthday traditions — like a colourful photoshoot, receiving your age in kisses, or throwing cake from a great height!

Carousel -- Week Ending 26th September 2008

Sera Beak, Kris Carr, striped stockings & the power of personal branding!

Things I Love Thursday

Having my parents in town, Las Vegas, Paris, my new apartment & anticipation of seeing Atmosphere!

Daily Outfit -- 21st September 2008

What Nubby & I wore for the last night of our honeymoon in Vegas!

Letting Go Of The Past & Getting Back Together

How do you stop looking back at the past? & should you really get back together with your ex-lover?

I Want To Be... A Graphic Designer!

Nubby Twiglet talks to us about making a living as a graphic designer.

How To Cope With A Quarter-Life Crisis (Part Two)

How to develop satisfying relationships, & how they can help you avoid an existential crisis!

Daily Outfit -- 17th September 2008 (Part Two)

Nubby & I got dressed up for a night out in the city, & this is what transpired…

Carousel -- Week Ending 19th September 2008

A little carousel, but a goodie!

Things I Love Thursday

Having Nubby back, Las Vegas anticipation, the Hotel on Rivington & lots of other silly things!

Daily Outfit -- 17th September 2008

Nubby & I went shopping… Here we are on an idyllic street, modelling our new wares!

How To Cope With A Quarter-Life Crisis

What is a quarter-life crisis? What are the catalysts or causes, & how can you avoid one yourself? Click click, you know you want to!

The Virgo Birthday Extravaganza: Report!

Photos of my 25th birthday party, including portraits of some of the guests!

Daily Outfit -- 13th September 2008

My birthday outfit! Yay!

I Want To Be... A Fashion Designer!

Ana Steele writes about what it’s like to be a fashion designer!

Carousel -- Week Ending 12th September 2008

How to have a beautiful relationship with food, art pieces by Yoko Ono, a promotion by Agent Provocateur, Apnea’s journal & more!

Things I Love Thursday

The things I love this Thursday, in no particular order… Drumroll, please!

Betsey Johnson at Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week

A review of the Betsey Johnson show, video & all!

Daily Outfit -- 10th September 2008

My outfit for the Louis Vuitton party in Soho.

The Virgo Birthday Extravaganza!

Nubby & I are turning a year older, & you’re invited to celebrate with us!

Daily Outfit -- 9th September 2008

What I wore to the Betsey Johnson show.

Nicole Miller & Erin Fetherston at Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week

What’s fashion week really like? Let me tell you…

I Want To Be... An Illustrator!

Molly Crabapple, illustrator & founder of international art movement Dr Sketchy’s Anti-Art School, gives some pointers on making it in the art world!

Daily Outfit -- 6th September 2008

Not the most appropriate outfit to brave a tropical storm in, I admit… But I look like a cartoon, so it’s all okay!

Daily Outfit -- 5th September 2008

What I wore to the first day of fashion week in New York.

Carousel -- Week Ending 5th September 2008

Pinhole cameras, modern pirate utopias, dealing with difficult people & Trevor Brown’s blog!

Daily Outfit -- 4th September 2008

Hello, this is my plane outfit!

Things I Love Thursday

Blog World Expo, international playgirl lifestyle, spring, ridiculous manicures with jewels in ‘em & pole-dancing classes!

Dame Darcy's Gasoline

A video interview with Dame Darcy about her new graphic novel coming out soon, Gasoline.

iCiNG Infatuations: Five Fabulous Secret Beauty Weapons

The five beauty weapons I swear by right now.

August 2008

I Want To Be... A Cupcake Queen!

My friend Jess makes the best cupcakes I’ve ever tried in my entire life, & her business is an absolute triumph! Here she discusses what it’s like to frost 700 cupcakes in one sitting, & the realities of the cupcake world!

Carousel -- Week Ending 29th August 2008

How to make out, secrets of a hipster hooker & much more!

Things I Love Thursday

I made a video for this week’s TiLT… It is bizarre!

When SSM Strikes!

What is SSM? It stands for Seasonal Sartorial Malaise, & it’s a hideous beast!

Tempt: A Haiku Cupcake Review

A sad tale of expensive cupcakes & the girls they defeat.

I Want To Be... A Life Coach!

An interview with Tim Brownson, life coach, about what he does.

Gala's Birthday Wishlist!

This is the birthday wishlist I would give to my boyfriend… if my boyfriend was the Sultan of Brunei!

Carousel -- Week Ending 22nd August 2008

Online burlesque classes, Yoko Ono art pieces, bed jumping & more!

Things I Love Thursday

New York anticipation, fashion week, awesome offers, karaoke & more!

Richard Brautigan

Some of my favourite poems by Richard Brautigan.

I Want To Be... A Tattoo Artist!

I talk to Tim Kern about tattooing as a career.

Daily Outfit -- 16th August 2008

Staying warm in Wellington!

Carousel -- Week Ending 15th August 2008

Alice in Wonderland, cute couples photos, an Eckhart Tolle t-shirt, dating tests…

First Date Etiquette

Avoid being a cautionary tale (or terrifying anecdote) by considering the following guidelines!

Things I Love Thursday

Roadtrips, planning my birthday party, aqua aerobics & a whole lot of other stuff!

Other Sites In Which To Delight!

Hungry for some new sites to feed into your RSS reader?

Oh My God, I Think I'm Ready To Date Again...

How do you know you’re actually ready to start seeing other people? Sometimes we think we are, but we’re wrong (or just delusional). Here are a few signs you might not be ready to take the plunge just yet.

10 Ways To Snap Yourself Out Of A Slump

Here are some of my favourite ways to break the shackles of a slump.

Carousel -- Week Ending 8th August 2008

24 hours of Flickr, Gemma Ward, Francesca Lia Block & how to deal with email overload!

Daily Outfit -- 6th August 2008

This outfit’s alternate working title is ‘how to go from the height of summer to the bowels of winter in 20 hours’!

Things I Love Thursday

This is the FIFTY-SECOND TiLT! Do you know what that means? YES! If you’ve been with me since the first TiLT, we’ve now been doing this FOR A YEAR SOLID!

iCiNG Infatuations: Five Fabulous... Nail Polishes

Girl with day-glo eyes seeks boy with whom to hold hands, share pastries, & get frisky in public places. I like to eat strawberries & commandeer the blankets, often at the same time. If your idea of a good time includes a pack of tarot cards & a pair of handcuffs, get in touch. (Boys with telekinetic powers preferred.)

Andy Warhol's Beauty Tips

“Beauty really has to do with the way a person carries it off. When you see “beauty” it has to do with the place, with what they’re wearing, what they’re standing next to, what closet they’re coming down the stairs from.”

Why I Love Atmosphere -- A Top 10 List

I talk about Atmosphere a lot on iCiNG, & I thought maybe it was time to help you all understand precisely why they are my favourite group on the entire planet. There are a bunch of reasons, some of which can be explained. The rest of it is all about the music, so I’ve thrown in videos of some of my favourite tracks.

Hair Update!

You asked for it, you got it! New hair pictures! Don’t say I’m not good to you… it’s 4am New Zealand time!

July 2008

Carousel -- Week Ending 1st August 2008

This is another little Carousel — but I’m going for a quality over quantity thing here!

Things I Love Thursday

My friend Jess, sleeping on the plane, Wildilocks & Coney Island!

Style Tips -- 30th July 2008

Sit on your kitchen table, set up your camera, & take photographs of yourself cutting up your stockings.

How To Ace A Job Interview

Here are my tips for impressing the pantaloons off anyone in an interview.

Daily Outfit -- 27th July 2008

This was my sultry/relaxed (new genre!) dinner outfit.

A Weird Public Announcement

So, I broke up with my boyfriend…

Carousel -- Week Ending 25th July 2008

The smallest Carousel ever, perhaps! Made for super-short people, or just those of us with a lot to do!

Things I Love Thursday

Well, I’m leaving New York City on Monday for at least a month, but possibly up to 6 months. I am very, very sad to be leaving, but I am also so thankful to this city for turning it on for me. I have had the most amazing time ever. Ever ever ever. & so, as a way to say thank you, I decided to make this TiLT entirely New York themed.

How To Have A Summer Romance (With Yourself)

...Even then, sometimes people are disappointing, or not as romantic as you’d hope, or they don’t share your fervour for eating cheese in treehouses. & I mean, honestly, a summer romance isn’t a summer romance without cheese in a treehouse.

Gala's Guide To NYC Version 1.0

Here are some of my favourite things about New York City… just a few odds & ends I have discovered in my 3 months here.

Style Tips -- 21st July 2008

Sneak onto a rooftop at night, lie down & drink iced tea. Enjoy the view & twinkling lights.

Carousel -- Week Ending 18th July 2008

Pretties, overheard in New York, how to know if you’re living your life with passion & sleeping around Craigslist.

Gala's Arm

Fun with ink. Pictures from yesterday, as promised!

Things I Love Thursday

Getting tattooed, Tings, my lawyer, vegan deliciousness & Yayoi Kusama.

Style Tips -- 16th July 2008

Communicate. Fearlessly. Anyone who is worth it will make you feel good about doing so.

How To Be More Assertive

“I was hoping you could write an article on how to be assertive. I am neither shy nor aggressive, but I have such a hard time standing up to people I feel inferior to. For example, my landlord is being just dreadful to my house-mates and I, and is trying to make us pay for things we did not damage! I want to stand up to him but it’s difficult, I’ve always been taught to be respectful to those older then me. How do I muster up the courage to be assertive in this, and any situation?”

Quote Of The Day -- 14th July 2008

Begin. Keep on beginning. Nibble on everything.

50 Things To Do Before Winter Ends

Freezing your toosh off? Feeling the urge to just sit around & grizzle about the weather? Shape up, cutie! Try doing these instead!

50 Things To Do Before Summer Ends

Feeling bored? Does the hot weather have you lethargic & listless? Try keeping yourself occupied with one (or several) of the following!

Daily Outfit -- 10th July 2008

Nubby & I photographed by Bianca Alexis!

Carousel -- Week Ending 11th July 2008

We Bite Back, Alice in Wonderland style & DIY necklaces!

Things I Love Thursday

Nubby Twiglet (!!!), journalling, everything happening for a reason, sparkly pens…

Daily Outfit -- 9th July 2008

Just chillin’ on a rooftop in the West Village with Miss Nubs!

Your Most Fabulous Self

What would you say are the attributes of your most fabulous self? How do you behave when you are being your absolute cutest, most clever, witty, sparkly, excitable, flirt-tastic, ambitious, well-dressed, best ever incarnation of you?

How To Be A Leader

What are the essential elements of leadership? What skills & assets do you need in order to steer a group of people in one direction or the other?

Daily Outfit -- 7th July 2008

Most simple outfit of all time! Parfait for lounging around the house, drinking juice, climbing on the kitchen table… you know, the usual!

A Magnificent Monday Mixtape

I made you a mixtape to kick your week off the right way! Hope you enjoy it — & dance to it just like Nubby & I did!

Quote Of The Day -- 5th July 2008

“...The body never lies. It’s your spiritual tuning fork. So it’s your responsibility not to merely cover up its signals with expensive lotions & Pepto-Bismal but to sit down & really listen to what is underneath those symptoms.”

Carousel -- Week Ending 4th July 2008

Think Arete, hidden gardens of Paris, best famous quotes & Eckhart Tolle!

Daily Outfit -- 3rd July 2008

I am dressed faux-professional today!

Things I Love Thursday

Nonpareil enthusiasm, the Manhattan iCiNG Bowl, setting my intentions, fruit & moooore!

Could You Be The iCiNG Intern?

I’m looking for someone who is…

Daily Outfit -- 1st July 2008

I am totally into the contrast of patent leather with florals. Yum.

How To Give The Best Compliment Ever

Giving a compliment is simple in theory: you just open your mouth & say something positive! But sometimes we second-guess ourselves, worry about what other people will think, doubt our own authenticity & get into a panic. It’s no fun to get into a flap over something which is so charming, harmless & sweet!

June 2008

Style Tips -- 30th June 2008

Next time you have to make a nerve-wracking phone-call, put on your best, most fabulous pair of shoes. March around your room in them for a bit, pluck up your courage & then dial on your feet. (You always sound more authoritative standing up!)

Carousel -- Week Ending 27th June 2008

Best off-the-wall productivity tips, yummy photos, weird words & Patricia Field!

Your Personal Manifesto

If you were going to make a Wordle image that summed up all the attributes you admired — & the kind of person you wanted to be — what would it look like?

Things I Love Thursday

I think one of the best ways to get excited about your life is to take stock of the things in it which are already magnificent, fabulous & delightful! If you do it regularly, it starts to become a way of thinking — you feel that your life is already full of glory & wonder, rather than lacking. It’s one of the best ways I know to start feeling real happiness.

2008 Trends & The Imaginary Girls Who Make Them Look Magical

Candace swept into her international relations lecture at the last minute. As she set her handbag down with an unceremonious clunk, she took a long swig of water & surveyed the room. She stepped up to the lectern & cleared her throat. “Let me tell you what I know about post-positivist epistemology,” she said.

Sera Beak

Last night I went to a talk by Sera Beak — the spiritual cowgirl!

Style Tips -- 24th June 2008

Wear polka dots & talk about how amazing you are all day, in tribute to Yayoi Kusama.

Bubble Battle!

It was amazing.

Louis Vuitton Cruise Collection 2009

This is my favourite piece from the collection. I am not the sort of girl to describe anything as “fierce”, but this? A hot pink jumpsuit? It is ABSOLUTELY, 100% FIERCE! Maybe a bunch of us could save up to buy it & then wear it in turns?!

Carousel -- Week Ending 20th June 2008

Bunny!

Daily Outfit -- 19th June 2008

Dress like a cupcake should feel. I took it to heart this evening!

Things I Love Thursday

Greek, new shoes, airbrush tanning & many more things which fill me with unbridled glee!

An Idea, Perfectly Illustrated

Top yourself with a delicious head-piece — make a hat out of melted birthday candles or thread jelly babies into your hair.

Loving A New City: Alone

How to enjoy yourself in a new place & not feel lonely.

Daily Outfit -- 17th June 2008

I look really tanned in these pictures but I think it’s just the light. I have been rigorously applying sunscreen every day, never fear!

Quote Of The Day -- 16th June 2008

A Note from the Universe.

Style Tips -- 16th June 2008

Wear something sparkly, get in the bath, pool or a big puddle, & have a mermaid photoshoot.

Daily Outfit -- 14th June 2008

Yesterday, my friend Jess & I went to the Cupcakes Take The Cake annual cupcake picnic in Central Park.

Cracking The Whip

It has come to my attention that some of us need to be reminded what iCiNG is all about. So let’s go over that, hmm?

How To Wear Pink Cowboy Boots

“I recently bought a pair of bright pink cowboy boots (on complete impulse!) and haven’t worn them yet. I know they’re gonna be big and I’ve seen them start to creep onto the high street, so I want to look like I’m really ahead of the trends. But I have no ideas what to wear them with! Could you give me some help?”

Daily Outfit -- 13th June 2008

My new jumpsuit on a very picturesque street in the West Village.

What Would Your Namesake Bag Look Like?

“Random question for you, just for fun: all these celebrities have handbags named after them (Birkin, etc.)... If someone were to make a Gala Darling bag, what would you want it to look like?”

Carousel -- Week Ending 13th June 2008

Some lovely spooky stuff for your weekly link round-up!

YOU Condoms

Want an unusual gift? Loathe the impracticality of your standard business card? Have a penchant for making balloon animals out of inflated condoms?

Things I Love Thursday

TLC, girls who buy me cupcakes, Pharrell Williams & of course, much much more.

How To Have The Best Holiday Ever

Here are my tips for making the absolute best of your overseas excursion.

Quote Of The Day -- 10th June 2008

DailyOM rules.

Robin Williams On Inside The Actor's Studio

I watched this yesterday & laughed until tears streamed down my face. It’s way too good not to share! I think he is pretty much the funniest man who ever lived.

The Raw Girl's Travel Guide

So what about those of us who have experienced the glee of raw food? How are we supposed to eat while we travel? What can we do to make our travels less of a trip to the bloat buffet & more energising, fulfilling & fun?

Style Tips -- 8th June 2008

Make cupcakes at 3am with a friend.

Gala's Going Out Playlist

Here’s what I listened to tonight as I dressed up.

What Were You Wearing When This Song Came Out?

I went into a tiny vintage shop in the East Village yesterday, & the guy & the girl behind the counter were making pleasant banter. The guy, who was fiddling with an iPod, said, “I haven’t heard this song in years!”, & then these familiar opening notes came floating out of the speakers…

Carousel -- Week Ending 6th June 2008

Angelina Jolie, the liberating effects of failure, dancing cupcakes & more.

Sex & The City: The Movie

Alright, lovelies. Time for the inevitable discussion.

Things I Love Thursday

Chester French, air conditioning, Lush cosmetics, having my palm read & more!

Quote of the Day -- 4th June 2008

Always be yourself. No one else shines like you — nor can they illuminate a room, thrill onlookers or shatter perceptions in the amazing way you do.

My Mother Might Have Cancer...

“I don’t know who to talk to, or how to healthily deal with my emotions.”

How To Wear... Competition Winners!

Without further ado, my 12 favourite sets are…

May 2008

Daily Outfit -- 30th May 2008

What I wore to Sex & The City: The Movie!

Carousel -- Week Ending 30th May 2008

Lots of SATC links… & a bunch of normal ones, too.

Polo, Darling?

You are invited to join me (& a whole lot of civilised folk) for the Veuve Clicquot Manhattan Polo Classic!

Things I Love Thursday

PATRICIA FIELD... & more!

Turning A House Into A Home

Being away from all my trinkets has gotten me thinking about what it takes to turn a space into something you can inhabit with joy, settle into & feel comfortable.

iCiNG Treats Contest!

We all know that the nonpareils are a creative bunch. We also know they’re a good-lookin’ bunch! But we haven’t had a chance to celebrate it… until now!

Artists Of The Moment

Artists who make my heart throb!

Style Tips -- 26th May 2008

Buy yourself a pair of fabulous, extravagant heels. Go on. Just do it!

Hello, Lover!

I’m so excited… & I just can’t hide it…

Why Is Gala In NYC?

“Your life in New York seems absolutely fab! I was just wondering — what’s the story behind your trip/move? Did you just decide to pack up and spend a couple months in NY? Did it start as a vacation and then turn into a longer term thing? How’d you score a short term lease on an apartment? So many questions! Sorry to be a needy blogger. I’m just so curious!”

Daily Outfit -- 24th May 2008

Photos by Craig of Altamira NYC.

Carousel -- Week Ending 23rd May 2008

Guy Kawasaki interviews Darren Rowse, a Sex & The City photoshoot, No Impact Man & lots of other goodies!

The Constant Gardener: Podcast

A recording of me reading my recent article.

The Constant Gardener

My mother has always said, “Everything happens for a reason”. For years I thought this was just her way of placating me when something bad happened, but recently I have come to realise the inherent wisdom in it.

Things I Love Thursday

Meeting new people, bicycle delivery guys, my new apartment & a whole lot of NYC-centric lust!

Daily Outfit -- 21st May 2008

Having new places to take photos is really, really great.

Calling All Nonpareils In New York...

Want to come to an iCiNG gathering?

Daily Outfit -- 20th May 2008

I’m wearing my mouse hat in my new apartment in NYC!

iCiNG Time Capsule

Let’s take a little trip down memory lane…

iCiNG Transformation Challenge -- How'd You Do?

Well, for a lot of you, today is the last day of the iCiNG Transformation Challenge. Phew! It’s been an interesting month, huh?

Moleskine Inspiration

Beautiful pictures to spur you into journalling action!

Carousel -- Week Ending 16th May 2008

Fifi Lapin, Guy Kawasaki & Tina Su!

Things I Love Thursday

Southern hospitality, Disney World, good plane seats, butterflies & more!

How To Wear... Competition!

iCiNG has teamed up with Polyvore for another competition!

A Place To Lay My Hat

A weird favour!

Yoga For Beginners

Here are some videos to get you stretching in the comfort of your own home!

ModCloth Competition Winner!

The winner is…

Things My Parents Taught Me

“What values, insights or lessons did your parents pass on to you? What part did they play in shaping you into the individual who thinks outside of the box, follows her intuition and has the practical know how to make her dreams happen?”

Daily Outfit -- 11th May 2008

What I wore at Disney World!

Spring Uniforms

Sometimes when the weather heats up, I get overwhelmed with the contents of my closet (or suitcase!). When that happens, it can help to come up with a few outfits that I can adapt a little bit as necessary, but that basically serve one purpose. I call them “Spring Uniforms” — ensembles that are easy to put together & comfortable to wear, & get me over that initial hump of warm weather mania!

Carousel -- Week Ending 9th May 2008

Photoshoots ahoy, body language tips & tricks, Japanese street fashion & a superb house tour.

Style Tips -- 8th May 2008

Keep your money in a sock (striped? Lacy? With toes? You decide!) instead of a wallet.

Things I Love Thursday

The iCiNG community, telephones, New York +++!

What Should I Buy For Mother's Day?

Here are some ways to show her your appreciation without resorting to old faithful gifts — like a gift pack from The Body Shop or a scented candle!

Your Life In Haiku

If you were to write a haiku about your life at this very moment, what would it say?

Weekly Resolutions

Yay, weekly resolutions! A bit of structure for my (currently) incredibly random life! I’m so excited about this, haha, what a nerd! I don’t know what time this is going live for those of you in Australia & NZ, but it’s 7am here… so I’m sorry if your usual iCiNG schedule is a bit out of whack!

Observing Our Progress

I wanted to write a little bit about being observant, because often when we’re making big personal changes, it can be hard for us to see what an improvement it’s making to our quality of life. It’s all about being objective, & when it comes to something so personal & close, it’s tricky to assess it accurately.

It's 3:04am -- Do You Know Where Your Gala Is?

I’M IN NEW YORK CITY BABY!

Gala's Secret Surprise!

...Sit tight!

Raw Hot Chocolate

A delicious raw hot chocolate recipe from Emrys!

Carousel -- Week Ending 2nd May 2008

Smallest Carousel ever! Awww! So cute!

Things I Love Thursday

Disintegration, iCiNG Treats, cupcake queens & more!

April 2008

iCiNG Treats For May!

This month we’re serving up two magnificent designs from the inimitable Nubby Twiglet, & I’m so excited! (I have been wearing mine obsessively!)

Daily Outfit -- 30th April 2008

Do you like my amazing necklace?

Kink Under The Covers

“What would you recommend to spice up your sex life?”

Deciphering Your Cravings

This is a guest post from the official sponsor of the iCiNG Transformation Challenge, Emrys Tetu! (Applause!)

iTC Discussion -- Week Two

This is the second official discussion area for the iCiNG Transformation Challenge!

Raw Coaching With Karen Knowler -- Part Two

My second raw coaching call with Karen Knowler.

Carousel -- Week Ending 25th April 2008

Very pretty pictures, Australia’s Next Top Model on Youtube & Cary Tennis loveliness.

Things I Love Thursday

Raw food, Atmosphere’s new album, Karen Knowler & about a billion other things!

Daily Outfit -- 23rd April 2008

I am a spy.

Purple Eyebrows!

Exactly what it says!

Weekly Resolutions

Things on my agenda!

iCiNG Transformation Challenge Discussion!

This is the official discussion area for the iCiNG Transformation Challenge.

Ooh, The iTC Starts Tomorrow!

How I overcame my fears & went to a cheerleading class!

iCiNG Transformation Challenge -- Reminder!

For those of you who still aren’t sure how they’d like to participate, here are a few ideas.

Carousel -- Week Ending 18th April 2008

New York desserts, things every man should know (apparently), typography & DJ Z-Trip, among other things!

ModCloth Competition!

Win a $100 voucher from ModCloth by making a fabulous outfit!

Things I Love Thursday

The “no complaints” experiment, the iCiNG Transformation Challenge, exercise plotting & bad television!

Jem-Inspired Makeover!

What happens when you & your make-up artist friend have a free afternoon? Why, you make a mess with glitter & highly pigmented eye-shadow, of course!

Morals, Ethics & Integrity -- Where Do You Draw The Line?

After your health, it’s said that the most important thing you have is your integrity, because once it’s gone — it’s gone.

I Have A Crush On A Guy I've Never Met!

That’s so cute & awesome, & I think you should definitely approach him. After all, what is life without courage? But having said that, there are some definite tips to keep you from crossing over into scary stalker territory.

Style By The Stars: What's Your Astrological Aesthetic?

Suggested outfits for those of you who want to dress in accordance with your sign!

Weekly Resolutions

My resolutions for the week!

iCiNG Transformation Challenge -- Mailing List!

If you want to jump on board, sign up below. I’ll start sending you messages of love, cheer, invigoration & fortitude a few days before the iTC starts… & we’ll take it from there!

Daily Outfit -- 11th April 2008

This is what I wore to go & see Rove at the Melbourne Town Hall.

Muxtape

Listen to my muxtape/mixtape!

Carousel -- Week Ending 11th April 2008

A Secretary-inspired photoshoot, strategies for shopping problems & how to clear your inbox!

iCiNG Transformation Challenge -- Announcement!

I wanted to let you all know about something I’m planning to kick off soon. It’s called the iCiNG Transformation Challenge, it will run for a month & it revolves around us taking control of our lives & our bodies in a concentrated way! It’s like weekly resolutions but amped up in a way that would make even Victoria Beckham exclaim, “MAJOR!”.

Things I Love Thursday

Paul Arden, ugni molinae berries & moooore!

Daily Outfit -- 9th April 2008

My new dress from Ricochet!

8 Outfits & Ideas For The Perfect First Date

After months of shy coffee shop flirting, Fawn finally wore this to browse an art gallery with Mark. When they walked outside, their nervous conversation changed track & she gave him an impromptu tango lesson in the garden outside.

How To Get A Job At Lush!

If you knew how many times I’ve been asked this question, you would laugh! Seriously, there would be major giggling. You might even guffaw. So I figured it was time to answer it en masse rather than dishing out little tips whenever I get an email like this!

Weekly Resolutions

This week my goal-setting tip is to phrase things in the positive.

Jem!

This is pretty much the perfect thing to watch on a Sunday. I hope you enjoy it!

Daily Outfit -- 5th April 2008

What I wore in chilly Wellington!

Carousel -- Week Ending 4th April 2008

A robot girlfriend, MAD magazine fold-ins & being happy.

Things I Love Thursday

Sitars, new music, scarves in bed & tomato juice!

How To Increase Your Energy Levels

What can you do when you feel like an extra from Night of the Living Dead?

How To Let Someone Know That You Like Them

Lots of super-sweet ideas to let your crush know they’re on your mind!

March 2008

What Would You Wear At 40?

“I confess, when I shop with my 19 year-old daughter, I am so envious of the style choices she has. PLEASE do women like me a favor! How can a forty-something mom build a style without large expense (we are paying for college you know) which will look new and fresh but appropriate for our age. Remember, we don’t have the great bodies we did at your age. Classic but unexpected. Flattering. Age-appropriate but FUN! What do you see yourself wearing at 40?”

iCiNG Treats

I had the idea a while ago that it would be stupendously cool if there was a way for nonpareils to signal one another on the sly, in real life. You know how sometimes you see somebody on the street & you think, ‘I bet we have things in common’? But life is weird & hectic & sometimes you’re too shy to say anything, even though you’re thinking so hard about whether they like cupcakes & shoe shopping that you almost walk into traffic.

Weekly Resolutions

If you really want to get something done, announcing your weekly resolutions in a public forum (like here!) is an excellent way to get things started. It gives you more impetus to finish it off — people know what you’re planning & they’re waiting to see it happen, which often gives us more motivation than if it was just us working alone.

Reminder!

Super secret surprise on the way! Eeeee!

How Hirsute Are You?!

Really… how hairy are you?! Take this quiz & find out your optimal hair removal method!

Connecting Up!

Want to get friendly with your fellow nonpareils? Have a look at this!

Carousel -- Week Ending 28th March 2008

Inspiration, the no complaint experiment, sk*rt & Agyness Deyn… among other lovely distractions!

Things I Love Thursday

Dr Sketchy’s, seaweed, two duvets & mooooore!

Imitation Is The Sincerest Form Of... Flattery?

“I was just wondering if you would by any chance consider writing an article about people copying you/how you would deal with that? I have a friend who’s recently started copying my music tastes, saying my favourite movies are her favourite movies and the way I speak (stupid little things like saying ‘spiffy’ a lot which I do), and the way I dress to some extent. I know I should just ignore it but it’s really irritating me that she’s basically appropriating my identity. I don’t really know what to do, and I’d feel terribly awkward confronting her about it. Maybe you could please give me some advice?”

Things I Require This Winter Or I Will Surely Die

Melodrama is so hot right now! (Not really.)

Weekly Resolutions

This week, I’d like to impose a limitation, if I may, which will make your week much more productive.

Daily Outfit -- 23rd March 2008

BUNNYHEAD!

Daily Outfit -- 22nd March 2008

Je suis un French schoolgirl… oui!

Raw Coaching With Karen Knowler

An MP3 of my raw coaching call with Karen Knowler — which totally blew my socks off!

Taking The High Road

“So I made the mistake of falling for my best friend. Which usually can be quite the beautiful thing but in this case, we drove each other mad to the point where I was slamming doors in his face and he was screaming out my window à la Streetcar Named Desire. And then some.”

Carousel -- Week Ending 21st March 2008

Bondage, public speaking, Guy Kawasaki & personal transformation! A veritable cornucopia of delights!

Things I Love Thursday

Apricots, Atmosphere (always), Ani Difranco & a whole lot of other things that start with A!

Daily Outfit -- 19th March 2008

A black slip over black jeans. Simple & easy.

iCiNG Loves ModCloth!

Thank you so much, ModCloth, for keeping us running! We luuuuurve you!

Things To Do Before The Seasons Change

Regardless of what’s happening, temperature-wise, in your town, there are some things I think everyone should do in preparation for the upcoming season!

Problem Skin

“My skin has really been getting me down lately – I’m 15 and it was perfect before getting spots a few years ago. Now, it’s a disaster. I’ve got enlarged pores, under-skin spots (that never surface and don’t hurt), an un-even skin tone and very minor acne marks/scars. How can I get my perfect skin back? Has it been ruined? I use M·A·C Studio Fix, but on my problem skin it just looks caked on and obvious so I don’t wear it too often… I cleanse, tone and moisturise with Simple products and exfoliate once a week. My diet isn’t bad at all either – I eat quite a lot of fruit and veg and hardly any sugar but I still break out. One thing I can think of is I do smoke… Could this cause such a problem with my skin? If so – I’m quitting starting today!”

Themed Outfits For Intellectuals

I recently had a girl write to me, saying that she was sick of wearing jeans to university every day, & could I please come up with some potential outfits for her to wear? When she added, “Maybe they could be themed according to what people were studying”, a light-bulb went off in my head & I thought, YES! Yes! I WILL do that for you! It’s too great a concept not to.

Weekly Resolutions

My resolutions for the week.

How To Fix A Terrible Haircut

So, what can you do when your hair ends up shorter on one side than on the other? Or if your fringe is about 3 centimetres too high? Or if your hairdresser, who refused to listen to you, snipped off all the volume & bounce you’d been growing out for months?

Carousel -- Week Ending 14th March 2008

The Observer, Chanel’s mobile art container, Photoshop disasters & some other neat things!

Things I Love Thursday

Mike Dooley! & much more!

How To Make Friends

How do you make (& keep) friends?

Interview With Mike Dooley

Click to listen to us yabbering!

Boxers Vs Briefs

Which is better? The debate rages!

What To Wear To A Job Interview

“I was turned down for a job yesterday, to my face the woman said “I would not possibly think of hiring you, you do not have the correct presentation for my office, you should really invest in a suit if you want to make it into the corporate world”. I wore a white shirt and black pants, I did not wear the suit jacket solely because I caught the train and it was 30 degrees. My Mum thought I looked good (that’s not very reliable though) and I loved the shoes and earrings I wore so I even did a daily outfit photo but then I was shot down by this woman.”

Weekly Resolutions

How did you do? Here are my plans for the week…

Cute Coats (& How To Wear Them)

So, you’ve read How To Buy A Winter Coat. Now you just need to decide what you want! Here are some of my top picks & a few tips on how to wear them.

Being Happy Podcast

A podcast version of yesterday’s very popular article.

Being Happy

What is happiness? It’s hard to say, but it’s not what many people think it is. Happiness doesn’t magically come to you with a new pair of shoes, a lean body, a bulging bank account or 5 hours of sex every day. Nor does it materialise after you retire, get married, have a child or quit your job. It’s a little bit more complicated than that.

Carousel -- Week Ending 7th March 2008

Dominatrix lessons, raw websites, an interview with Nubby Twiglet & a New York webcam!

Things I Love Thursday

Skins, blazing my own trail, my new heart-shaped mirror ball… !

Un Petit Raw Update

“In any case, other than my desire to hear more about your adventures in raw foodism, the real question here is this: how do you balance a raw food diet with cupcakes? Can I make this a positive change without abandoning the classic cheese and cracker combo, chocolate and cupcakes on valentines day, and even, once and awhile, a sandwich? Please let a girl know!”

House Of Holland

What would your ideal House Of Holland shirt say? (The comments are totally GOLDEN.)

The New New Romantics

Audrey helps boys plan dates.

Fun Accessories

Sometimes all you need to take an outfit from drab to fab — or as I like to say, “From ‘up the creek’ to magnifique!” — is the addition of a couple of well-chosen accessories.

Daily Outfit -- 3rd March 2008

What I wore to the Fashion Incubator show…

Weekly Resolutions

What’s stopping me (& you) from ticking off the items on your list?

Black In Fashion: Mourning To Night

A review of the Black In Fashion exhibition at the NGV.

Daily Outfit -- 2nd March 2008

What I wore to Black In Fashion’s opening night. Plus — me with Zandra Rhodes!

February 2008

Mike Dooley Seminars!

Anyone want to help out at a Mike Dooley seminar?

Carousel -- Week Ending 29th February 2008

ANTM all-star dream team, a suuuuper cute screen-cleaner & lots of other treats!

Daily Outfit -- 28th February 2008

I’m wearing a slightly obscene sweatshirt. I also made a dancing montage.

Things I Love Thursday

Soy hazelnut hot chocolates, Karl Lagerfeld, my new dictaphone, dubstep & more more more!

Wow

I love this video.

Skinny Ties

Audrey’s take on skinny ties.

Umbrella Lurve!

It’s getting very cold around here, so I thought it was a good time to present you with an assortment of the best-looking brollies I’ve found recently… as well as who I can imagine owning them.

Weekly Resolutions

How did you do on yours? What would your weekly resolutions report card say? Would you give yourself an A+ or a C-?

Daily Outfit -- 24th February 2008

My new leather jacket! Ooh la la!

iCiNG Podcast Featuring Simon!

Simon (my boyfriend) & I made a podcast in response to a nonpareil’s question.

Coming Out To Homophobes

“I’m bisexual, have had past secret relationships with females and I haven’t told anyone except my boyfriend, who I know is one of the most open minded people out there. Do you know how I could tell my parents, friends and other people I know? My parents make fun of gay/bi/lesbian people. My friends stopped hanging out with one of our close friends because she told them she is a lesbian and another one because she is bi. How could you just stop hanging out with one of your friends after they told you probably one of their most in depth secrets? Also, my school isn’t exactly the most friendly towards the openly gay people or even those who “look” gay. So can you help me figure a way to come ermm – halfway out of the closet – with these people without making them spaz out and shun me?”

Carousel -- Week Ending 22nd February 2008

Why we love who we love, celebrity houses, differences in diet in relationships & many other things to click on!

Un Petit Hair Update

I had a trim, yay!

Things I Love Thursday

Fleetwood Mac, the iCiNG community, Exploding Dog & Notorious B.I.G.!

Fafi For MAC Cosmetics -- Reviews

On Monday, I received a FedEx package that made me yelp with excitement. It was a box from a PR company in New York. It said “MAC Cosmetics” on the outside. I thought, “Pffft, it couldn’t be. I bet someone wrote that just to get my attention!” But when I ripped it open in the elevator & looked inside, my heart started pounding. My hands trembled. I think I perspired a little bit. I ran down the corridor at full speed & started hollering excitedly at my boyfriend. Yes, I am a true MAC addict — these are the signs. It can get ugly!

Daily Outfit -- 19th February 2008

A futuristic flight attendant outfit!

Musky Monsieur

Let’s talk about sweats, baby!

How To Make A T-Shirt More Interesting

What do you like to wear with your favourite t-shirt? How do you make it look stylish?

Neogoth

So, what’s neogoth about, anyway? First of all, it has nothing to do with The Matrix — perish the thought! Nor does it have anything to do with bright, neon colours. ‘Neo’ is meant here to mean recent or new. Combine that with ‘goth’ & you get a fresh, modern version of the goth aesthetic. & not a moment too soon!

Weekly Resolutions

I started to ponder the concept of having weekly resolutions. I know that New Year’s resolutions can be quite daunting to a lot of people, which I’m sure isn’t helped by the fact that we are always expected to set great hulking goals for ourselves (like “Solve world hunger” & “Organise closet”). But if we could break down the time-frame, surely that would make it easier?

A Passionless Marriage

What can you do when your husband doesn’t do it for you any more?

Carousel -- Week Ending 15th February 2008

Tarotscopes, glamorous grocery shopping, Hunter S. Thompson & cupcake recipes! What a fantastic combination.

Things I Love Thursday

The massage song, movies about aerials, elbow patches & Takashi Murakami!

Valentine's Day Panic!

What would you put on a mixtape for your #1 crush?

Daily Outfit -- 13th February 2008

Alternative title: How to wear a cocktail dress during the day!

How To Have A Freak-Out-Free Birthday

Birthdays are supposed to be the happiest day of the year — the one where you celebrate your life with your closest friends & have an amazing time. But sometimes, they just don’t go as planned. Lots of people loathe their birthday, & refuse to do anything but watch re-runs of ‘Friends’ all day. Others find themselves filled with a nameless dread, while some people resort to getting drunk, high, having a bad one-night stand or spending most of the day in tears.

My Lelo Lily

While the Lily might look like a pansy, it’s anything but. With vibrations ranging from a subtle fizz to a tumultuous tickle, it’s sure to thrill even the most exacting vixen.

Why Thou Shalt Accessorise

There is a Latin phrase that goes, ‘Vestis Virum Facit’. Translated, it means, ‘The Clothes Maketh the Man’. Personally though, I think there needs to be a second point added onto that: Accessories Maketh the Outfit.

Fafi For MAC

I LOVE this range so much. Not just the make-up, but the accessories too! After all, who could say no to a Fafi t-shirt with striped arms? Or a silk scarf printed with Fafi characters?

Administrative Notices

Some notices :>

Geek Chic

Start reclaiming things that you used to get shoved in your locker for wearing!

Daily Outfit -- 10th February 2008

A knit hat, a leather skirt & a Rhymesayers t-shirt.

Sarma's Strawberry Tarts

A recipe from Carol Alt’s book ‘The Raw 50’.

Throwing A Valentine's Day Party!

This article is an excerpt from my digital book, How To Throw A Fantastic Party, which I recently rewrote with lots of gusto!

Carousel -- Week Ending 8th February 2008

Foodland, an interview with Haruki Murakami & underwater fashion portraits.

Happy Chinese New Year!

Today is the start of Chinese New Year! Happy new year! 2008 is the year of the rat in Chinese astrology. Nibble nibble!

Things I Love Thursday

Calendars, leather jackets, The Flashbulb & lots more! Plus — Audrey weighs on what’s making him happy, too!

Argyle S.O.S.!

What to wear with argyle? I have lots of ideas!

Quote of the Day -- 6th February 2008

R.I.P., Maharishi Mahesh Yogi.

EFT Tips & Tricks

I have had quite a few questions about EFT recently so I thought I’d address a bunch of them in one go.

How To Get Dressed For A Concert

Audrey tells men how to look stylish at a show.

Rock The Prom!

For most people, the prom is still a little way off — & yet at the moment, it’s the hottest issue in my inbox! Girls around the globe are fuh-reakin’ out, lost in a sea of dresses, stumped by what to wear & how to look different, original & cute without spending a fortune or imitating someone else.

Super Tuesday

I don’t normally make political statements here, but you guys have the power to change the world.

Notes From The Road

Audrey tells a tale from the road.

Sydney Morning Herald

A feature on me that was in the Sydney Morning Herald.

The Ultimate Crush Decoder Ring!

I get emails all the time from people who are in the grips of a major crush. The kind of crush that lives up to its name — the sort that squeezes your insides, makes you hyperventilate & always makes you feel like you’re not being very impressive at all. I realised I hadn’t written an article on how to stop a crush from becoming a crash, or how to salvage the wreckage if it does, & with Valentine’s Day coming up, it seemed appropriate! So, here it is — your crush decoder!

Francesca Lia Block

“All the girls were infatuated with Dirk; he wouldn’t pay any attention to them. But on the first day of the semester, Dirk saw Weetzie in his art class. She was a skinny girl with a bleach-blonde flat-top. Under the pink Harlequin sunglasses, strawberry lipstick, earrings dangling charms, and sugar-frosted eye shadow she was really almost beautiful. Sometimes she wore Levi’s with white-suede fringe sewn down the legs and a feathered Indian headdress, sometimes old fifties’ taffeta dresses covered with poetry written in glitter, or dresses made of kids’ sheets printed with pink piglets or Disney characters.”

Vintage Loot!

Things I bought at a recent vintage sale! $16 goes a long way sometimes!

Carousel -- Week Ending 1st February 2008

Desktop wallpapers, Deepak Chopra & Caroline Trentini, among other lovely treats!

January 2008

Dealing With Suicide

How to cope when you lose someone close.

New Shoes!

I love platforms, & I love mary janes, so it all makes sense really!

Things I Love Thursday

Organisation, talking about fashion blogging, easter eggs & a slew of other things!

Wishlist For 2008

Yum.

Rosewater

I love rosewater. It makes me happy. I like to buy it in strange glass bottles from imported food stores. Here are some things you can do with it if you get your hands on some!

Top 5 Fictional Female Style Icons

Television & movies are overrun with underdressed & badly-styled characters. But what about when the major studios get it right? This is my little homage to who I think are the 5 most stylish female characters.

Stylish Wedding Attire For Men

“Help! I’ve been invited to a wedding and I have no idea what to wear!”

50 Ways To Rescue The Worst Day Ever

How to solve an awful day? Clear your calendar. Postpone all social engagements, take time out for yourself & do one (or all) of the following…

Dali Atomicus

This photograph was shot live. It took 26 attempts, & over five hours to get it to look like this. Halsman would count, & on ‘four’, Salvador Dali would leap in the air, three assistants would throw cats, one other assistant would chuck the bucket of water, & Halsman’s wife would hold the chair as Halsman took the picture.

Sex & The City

These are clips from the Farewell episode.

Carousel -- Week Ending 25th January 2008

Candace Bushnell, Kirsten Dunst for Miu Miu & plenty more eyeball fodder.

Things I Love Thursday

New hair! Long fingernails! Ice-skating, too.

Jobs (& Hints) For Creative Souls

“Suggestions for job hunting, or really any way to make money that isn’t completely depressing to the creative heart would be so great!”

Cupcakes, Gala Style!

I am not a master cupcake baker, but I do enjoy it — the baking process as well as the eating part! It feels good to make something tangible, something that can be photographed & enjoyed & admired.

Man Bags

Alright boys, let’s face facts. Gone are the days where everything you needed to survive a day in this modern fast-paced world can fit in your pocket. It’s just not doable any more. If you’re roaming around the streets with just your wallet in your pocket, you’re either alarmingly under-equipped for life, or you’re cheating and getting your other half to cart around your stuff around for you. And that’s not cool.

My Raw Adventure!

Really, when you look at it logically, it makes sense. How could it possibly be bad for your body to subsist on lots of fresh, healthy produce from the earth?

Daily Outfit -- 19th January 2008

It’s raining & dreary & so we’re going ice-skating! I’m so excited, I’ve never been before. Hopefully I won’t bruise my booty! Wish me luck!

What We're Using

I thought it would be interesting to do a periodical round-up on the beauty products we’re all using & how well they’re working for us. It’s a good way to trade information & find products you might like to test out yourself.

Hair Extensions

Cass has a really amazing system of attaching extensions, the likes of which I’ve never seen before (or even heard of).

Daily Outfit -- 18th January 2008

I yam pirate!

Carousel -- Week Ending 18th January 2008

Happy Friday! Wiggle wiggle! Take a spin on the carousel!

New Hair!

I have new hair!!! There are not enough exclamation marks to describe the excitement I feel!

Things I Love Thursday

Tofutti cuties, Buffy, raw fooooood…

Yoga & Pilates

This is a breakdown of the various types of yoga & Pilates classes, with additional information on who they suit & what to expect!

How To Be A Gentleman

Audrey’s guide to being the perfect gentleman.

Daily Outfit -- 14th January 2008

I had trouble getting dressed today. Then, as I was lying in bed, I thought, “If I asked my nonpareils what I should wear, what would they say?” This is the outfit that came to mind…

How To Be A Writer

“My dream and the only thing I’ve ever really been in interested in is being a writer. Many many people have tried to discourage me from doing this, but it’s my passion! I was wondering if you had any advice?”

Athletic Aesthetics

Prospective outfits for a fitness instructor who needs to go from classes to clients!

Rumours

“I’m having trouble with some stories that I’ve heard about myself that aren’t true. I was just wondering if you could perhaps give some advice on handling having a rumour being spread about you with poise? Because I am dreading school.”

Carousel -- Week Ending 11th January 2008

So many links! Great mash-up downloads, news about Rachel Zoe’s new TV venture, Pantone’s choice for colour of the year, & much more!

Things I Love Thursday

This week I lurve amazing people, my new blender, thinking about transitioning to raw veganism…

Daylesford

My trip to Daylesford — what I did, where I stayed, the works!

Name The iCiNG Orchid!

I bought an orchid, & it needed a name!

Putting On The Ritz

How to dress up, for men!

2008: The Year Of Healthy Eating

I want to eat healthier in 2008, & here’s how I intend to do it!

Tarina Tarantino Interview

I got the opportunity to ask Tarina Tarantino some questions, & here are her answers!

DailyOm

I received this email from DailyOm today & it was so accurate that it actually made me say, “Ouch!” Good food for thought.

What To Do: The First Weekend Of 2008

Fun ideas for the weekend!

Cheating & Trust

“Can you ever go back after he has cheated on you?”

Carousel -- Week Ending 4th January 2008

A weekly link-fest upon which to gorge yourself! Astrological predictions for 2008, an interview with Jim Carrey, an interview with Tony Robbins & lots more!

Things I Love Thursday

Things I’m loving! White rooms, David Letterman, eating properly, the delight of 2008…

Fashion & Style Predictions: 2008

The colour of royalty, homosexuality & Prince is making a comeback in a major way. It’s been blasted all over the catwalks, from Lanvin to Comme des Garcon & all the way to Pucci, in every hue imaginable: violent violet, lascivious lavender, punchy plum & apoplectic amethyst.

A Thought For 2008

When you do a thing, do it with all your might…

Happy New Year!

May 2008 be full of fantastic opportunities, amazing people, wonderful times & a sense of bliss!

December 2007

Daily Outfit -- 31st December 2007

It is 42 degrees. Yes, that is 110 to you. HELP!

Fetish Wear

“I was wondering if you would write an article on fetish dressing. I always find fetish dressing comes off looking extremely tacky and “goth” looking which of course is not the way I want to look. I’d like to be able to incorporate items such as platform “hooker heels”, bondage corsets, pvc, etc. into a more neutral or even girly wardrobe.”

Gibbous

I thought I would introduce you to a little clothing house called Gibbous.

How To Set Amazing Goals

Why not start 2008 with a fleet of fantastic goals & driving ambitions? Here’s how to go about it.

Cosmopolitan

It is rather sad for me to have to tell you this, but as of now, my columns in Cosmopolitan magazine are no longer.

Daily Outfit -- 29th December 2007

My outfit, some perfume & a major goal ticked off!

How To Be Charming

Charm & charisma are similar beasts: it’s the art of making the person you’re speaking to feel like they’re the only person in the room.

Gala's Ridiculous Gingerbread Idols

Tonight, I made gingerbread idols! (More fun than just making generic “men”.)

iCiNG's Best Of: 2007

If you’re after some light reading for the next few days, here are my favourite articles from the past twelve months…

Carousel -- Week Ending 28th December 2007

Hmm, no links today. Have a video of a carousel instead!

Things I Love Thursday

Christmas, gingerbread people, excellent service, cheese platters… !

Merry Christmas!

What did you give? What did you get? What did you eat? Did your aunt drink too much champagne & fall over?!

Christian Louboutin

Why the red sole? / It’s a green light for men.

How To Perform A Striptease!

‘Tis the season to be jolly… & why not be jolly while you take your clothes off?!

Pets At Christmas

If you’re thinking of giving someone a puppy or kitten or other animal for Christmas, please pause before you pick one up from your local pet store.

New Year's Resolution Ideas!

Okay, I know it can be hard to come up with worthy resolutions for the new year, so I thought I’d give you a bit of help.

Carousel -- Week Ending 21st December 2007

Richard Avedon, amazing interviews & a webcam of the most romantic city.

5 Masculine Ways To Beat Christmas Stress

Audrey’s tips for dealing with Christmas — in a manly way, of course!

Things I Love Thursday

New music, Sofia Coppola, cleaning & organising, & a huge pile of other stuff!

Fabulous New Year's Eve Outfits

I would be totally keen to wear one of these on New Year’s Eve.

Preparing For 2008

Here are some little things you can do to make your transition into 2008 even better. I advise doing most of them in that delicious time of nothingness that is the 25th to 31st of December. Eat a little, nap a little, tick one of these off your list, then eat some more. Sounds like a good time to me!

New Zealand Style

I don’t really think of myself as a “kiwi”. I was born in New Zealand, sure, but I have never felt any real connection to the country or culture. There are some things I really love about New Zealand, though — & one of those is New Zealand style.

Gifting Yourself

Are you going to buy something for yourself for Christmas?

Christmas Cheer!

“It’s Christmas time as you know. Usually one of my favourite times, but this year, I’m not excited. Nothing is exciting me. I find it terribly upsetting but nothing is triggering those wonderful memories. All I can think about is the bad from last year, the things I don’t want to do this season. Needless to say sugarplums are not dancing in my head. I’ve drunk eggnog, hot cocoa, eaten candy canes… Still I find myself rather Grinch-ish. Are there any thoughts or ideas you could give me to brighten my cheer?”

Happy First Birthday, iCiNG!

Happy birthday to us!

Style Tips -- 15th December 2007

Sew a heart onto the underside of one of your gloves.

Carousel -- Week Ending 14th December 2007

Lavazza calendars & much more loveliness!

Isabel Toledo

“The secret to wearing strong shapes is BODY LANGUAGE — a woman has to be comfortable in her own skin to make strong shapes work for her. Once you know yourself & understand how to use your body language, clothes with shape can enhance your graphic presence & help to project your own personal style.”

Things I Love Thursday

Inspiring friends, Flight of the Conchords, Polyvore… !

Audrey's Guide To Baldness

A friend recently had to come to terms with the fact that yes, he was indeed losing his hair. It came as quite a shock as he’s not exactly “old”, is quite virile and healthy. Unfortunately, male pattern baldness is a fact of life.

Tomboy Boot Camp

“I was a tomboy as a child, then as a teenager I had an ubercasual, slightly androgynous style (jeans/tees/trainers). But now I’m rapidly approaching 20 and desperate to look and feel feminine and sophisticated. I tried to throw myself in at the deep end by buying a couple of pretty skirts, but I feel overdressed and awkward so I’ve never actually worn them outside my flat. How can I ease myself gradually into this girly stuff (without feeling like a drag queen)? And how can I look feminine and still be casual for uni?”

Do You! -- Book Review

I really do think that in a person’s lifetime, you’re lucky to come across a single book of which you would happily buy a copy for every person you care about. Having said that, I recently found a book that I really think everyone should read.

A Model Search

On Saturday morning, I woke up at 6.30am to offer my services as an extremely amateur make-up artist at a modelling competition. Earlier that week, my teacher had asked me & a couple of other girls in my class to help her do faces at a show, & I was delighted (& totally flattered) to accept.

Daily Outfit -- 10th December 2007

Here’s what I wore to swill champagne…

Eye Make-Up Questions!

“Currently, I use a black pencil eyeliner on my bottom lash, and use mascara. I’d like to create a smoky effect but I don’t want to buy heaps. Is there some sort of special brush I can use to smudge it in?”

John Galliano

“Too much imagination? Too much fun? Too much excitement? Too much adventure? NO WAY! Enough is never enough & when you are tired of the routine you have to go seek adventure so that you never get enough — feed your mind, body & soul, & live life in a technicolour of imagination.”

Photobooth Friday -- 7th December 2007

Audrey & I, photoboothing it up!

My Boyfriend Doesn't Want Me To Get Tattoos!

“I desperately want to get a large tattoo on each of my arms, not quite as big as yours. The designs are beautiful, made up of things that are really important in my life, like symbols of my family, freedom and creativity. The only trouble is that my boyfriend utterly despises tattoos and has said himself he would find me less attractive if I had them done. He’s never ever said anything like that before and I don’t know what to do. Did people try to talk you out of getting inked?”

Carousel -- Week Ending 7th December 2007

Evil genius Coilhouse links, as well as Kate Spade advertisements & grilled cheese with truffle oil!

Things I Love Thursday

My balcony, make-up classes, songs in my head, Gossip Girl…

Cupcake Showdown!

Which outlet should you patronise? What flavour is the tastiest? Where do you get the most bang for your buck? Who does the chocolatiest smack in the kisser? Where are the best exotic flavours? & how many should you order for Christmas?

American Apparel Discount Code Reminder!

The American Apparel discount code ends soon — & here are my picks for ways to use it!

Audrey's Style Guide For Tall Fellows

How to dress if you tower above everyone else!

Totalitarian Daddy

“After reading your article on negative people, I have realized how many negative people I actually have in my life. So, as part of striving to be my own person and expunge myself from these beings, it’s come to my attention that the main negative people that are in my life are my parents, or more specifically, my father. As I’m still 18 and living at home, are there any suggestions you have as to how to deal with his mind-numbing totalitarian ruling and break out from the impact he is having on my life?”

Daily Outfit -- 3rd December 2007

Turquoise craziness!

Style Tips -- 1st December 2007

Window shopping in France is called lèche-vitrines — the literal translation is “window licking”!

November 2007

Audrey's Christmas Gift Guide!

Audrey gives tips on buying Christmas gifts for men!

Carousel -- Week Ending 30th November 2007

Under-eye make-up tricks, yummy street style, how to get your dream job & some other treats!

Gala's Christmas Gift Guide!

My guide to fun Christmas gift-giving.

Things I Love Thursday

Sex & The City, big stacks of books, sparkly nailpolish & daytime naps!

Daily Outfit -- 28th November 2007

I decided to make a video of my outfit. Hello, I am a dork.

Romancing Yourself

I was inspired to write this piece by a fantastic girl called Kylie who emailed me the other day, saying that she had never had a boyfriend & was pretty happy that way. Recently, however, in a conversation with a friend, she declared that she was no longer single — that she was dating herself!

Happy Birthday Manolo Blahnik!

Happy 65th Birthday Manolo Blahnik! You make legions of women across the world insanely happy. Few men can say that!

Life After School

“I was wondering, for us younger readers, how is life after high school? Is college easier, harder, less, or more work? What about after that? Do your goals change? What about your personality? Are you able to go through a “self-discovery” period or do you just get thrown into life right away? As a young adult, what are your thoughts about all this? How was high school different for you?”

Daily Outfit -- 26th November 2007

Monochrome & Catwoman-esque.

Being Okay With Who You Are

Audrey writes about acceptance & being okay with who you are.

Call An End To...

Some things can only go on for so long. If you’re up for the challenge, why not consider cutting the following from your life?

Unrequited Love

Unrequited love takes a lot of forms. Maybe you’re secretly in love with your best friend but don’t know how to tell them — & loathe having to grin & bear it while they tell you about their latest crush.

I Love My Boyfriend, But...

Stop expecting your lover to be someone they’re not. They are who they are. No one will ever change just because you want them to.

Carousel -- Week Ending 23rd November 2007

Creepy birds, love languages, Donatella Versace’s guide to style for men & more!

Daily Outfit -- 22nd November 2007

Hallo Spaceboy!

Things I Love Thursday

Zorro masks, Japanese food, naturally occurring phenomena…

Daily Outfit -- 21st November 2007

I wore this to take my friend out for ice-cream.

Bed Head

Tomorrow morning, when you get out of bed, walk to the mirror & look at your head. Though tempting to beat your hair to submission, take time to admire its wild composition…

Beloved Aesthetics

Do you love girls with long red hair, or curvy women in jeans & heels? Do you have a weakness for tattooed Japanese boys, or for men in impeccable suits?

Daily Outfit -- 20th November 2007

Wearing a waistcoat & rocking my tattoos!

Summer Style For Men

I recently made the acquaintance of a super-cool boy called Audrey. The good news is that as well as working as a buyer & designer for a men’s youth line, he is also a style fiend. He wrote this & I liked it so much that I asked if I could post it here for all the male readers! I hope you enjoy it!

Preparatory Style

When it comes to restyling the traditional prep look, your imagination & courageous spirit are your best assets. Well, that & your Visa!

Rachel Zoe Versus Victoria Beckham

Rachel Zoe & Victoria Beckham’s style manuals fight to the death!

False Eyelashes

I hope this information helps you bat your new eyelashes winsomely into your future. Just be careful not to bat them into someone’s drink!

Carousel -- Week Ending 16th November 2007

Wear what you are, designer bags which resemble monsters & the art of smiling!

Things I Love Thursday

False eyelashes, accents, silly words & more!

Gossip Girl Style

Gossip Girl is, without a doubt, the most stylish show on television. Don’t believe me?

Motivation

“I have a question regarding motivation. You work from home with no one to appease except your fans. How do you find the motivation to continue writing daily? I am student and although I love my field of study, I sometimes think it would be easy to just watch television all day! I want to have the motivation that you obviously have. Please help if you can!”

More EFT Information

Here are the things I’ve learned about EFT since I started. I use it every day, & have done so for over a year now, so I have a fairly good idea of what works & what doesn’t!

iCiNG Day Gallery!

Nadia & I celebrated iCiNG Day yesterday by doing a photoshoot in tribute to one of our favourite places — Japan!

Storage Solutions

How do you store earrings & sunglasses?

Happy iCiNG Day!

I hope you have an amazing time celebrating the very first iCiNG Day!

Daily Outfit -- 9th November 2007

Hello! I feel like Elton John’s demented protégé. Do you think he would adopt me? We could have sparkly singalongs all day & all night.

Carousel -- Week Ending 9th November 2007

Dining in Tokyo, the truth about interning at Vogue & moooore!

Things I Love Thursday

Rachel Zoe’s style manual, butoh workshops, treehouses…

Style Tips -- 7th November 2007

Develop a taste for gin & tonic.

American Apparel Discount Code

Yay!

Gala Darling Loves American Apparel!

A plain white t-shirt has never been the sort of thing that appealed to me. It always seemed a bit “French starlet on her day off”, if you know what I mean. You know those effortlessly gorgeous movie stars who wear a t-shirt & jeans on their day off but look impeccable? I am not one of those types. When I dress down like that, I feel like a soccer mother.

Celebrity Outreach

I have a recurring fantasy which involves me writing a letter to a celebrity & changing their life, somehow. Just in some small way — giving them a bit of unexpected support. I have learned what a difference it makes. In this fantasy, it’s always a celebrity who has fallen from grace in some way, or who is no longer “A List” for whatever reason. Someone who I think needs a bit of love & encouragement.

Ensure Yourself A Lovely Week With The Help Of The Internet!

I know there are lots of superb ways to improve your week, but when you’re stuck at a desk 5 days out of 7, it can be a bit tough to remember to breathe deeply, splash on some nice perfume or to muster the energy to go to yoga class. But never fear, because the internet is here to help! Here are some things I suggest doing today, so that you have a whole week of treats ahead of you.

Help A Nonpareil Contest!

Answer a tricky question & win!

Workplace Friendships

“I currently work at a University office, and just started a month ago. There are three girls here around my age, who are friends. I would like to start conversations with them, and I can tell they are nice because we all greet each other daily. I don’t know what to say, but I do see them surfing the same clothing websites I visit, so that could be a topic starter. Any advice?”

Carousel -- Week Ending 2nd November 2007

How to have an amazing day, haunting radio, latex couture etc.!

Things I Love Thursday

People moving to my city, finding elusive items, booking my Christmas holiday & many many many more things.

Living Together

“I was wondering if you have any advice on moving in with your boyfriend/partner. It seems like a massive step and I’m a bit unsure, we have only been dating for 1 and a half years.”

October 2007

Happy Hallowe'en!

Who are these mysterious Hallowe’en cuties?

Decorating A Room

I think bedrooms say a lot about their owner. If you don’t believe me, think about your own room (or even cast a glance around it). Is it dark & messy? Do you ever make your bed? Do you keep the blinds open at all times?

Embracing Your Inner Nerd

Recently, my friend Nadia & I went to a “nerdcore” themed party. We were trying to think of ways to appear nerdy but still stylish, when I came up with the idea of wearing blinged-out calculators.

Daily Outfit -- 29th October 2007

I am wearing scented cake necklace. No joke!

Style Tips -- 29th October 2007

Dance in every elevator you catch today, alone or not. I am like a one-woman elevator disco at all times. It makes the vertical commute so much more exciting! (Not to mention, I love the idea of cuties across the world dancing in elevators!)

Daily Outfit -- 26th October 2007

American Apparel a go-go!

Carousel -- Week Ending 26th October 2007

Kissing, luxury, taste & wood panelling…

Things I Love Thursday

Dry shampoo, Victoria Beckham & turbans!

September 2007

Fashion Report: Spring/Summer 2007/08

My direction for spring/summer 2007/08 is a mix of aristocratic, tennis & haughty chic, with modern edges.

Daily Outfit -- 29th September 2007

I am still in the grips of a major turban obsession.

Sexual Abuse

A girl wrote in asking how to deal with her sexual abuse, & I offered some suggestions.

The Power Of Eyebrows

It’s truly incredible the way a pair of well-shaped eyebrows can completely transform your face, as seen here!

Carousel -- Week Ending 28th September 2007

Living in gratitude instead of desire, how to accept criticism with grace, the Hug Nation tour & more!

Things I Love Thursday

Hot air balloons, Barbara Cartland, inspiration… & a fabulous stack of comments!

Daily Outfit -- 26th September 2007

This is the first outfit I haven’t loathed in DAYS.

Less Is More

Try experimenting with the “less is more” look. Here’s why.

Winter Style 2007

Things I would definitely be wearing if I was in, say, New York. (Swoon.)

Sealed With A Kiss

How to write a great letter, make an interesting envelope & keep the your postal communication vibrant!

Camping In Style

Recently, a very sweet girl told me she was on her way to a school camp & didn’t know what to wear. She said that while her mother always tells her to take practical clothes, she often felt shown-up by the other girls, who were immaculately groomed — even after canoeing! Ahh, the joy of school. But it did prompt me to think that surely there was a way to camp in style. It can’t be all mosquito spray & burned marshmallows, can it?

Winter Essentials 2007

Some things you might want to invest in for the chilly months. Tartan, a striped umbrella, yoga classes, Oxfords, & more!

Gala Darling Paper Doll

A while ago, the incredible Mel Knight created a paper doll of yours truly! I have FINALLY put it all together & here is a printable version as well as the option of dragging & dropping my clothes! Enjoy!

Carousel -- Week Ending 21st September 2007

How to fight artist’s block, Japanese fashion week, how to be fabulous, articles on Iris Apfel & more!

Daily Outfit -- 20th September 2007

Please excuse the ultra-serious (cyborg) expression! This outfit kind of makes me feel like Victoria Beckham if she was a riding instructor… so you know, smiling is out.

Things I Love Thursday

Violet Crumble ice creams, long naps, super-speedy morning walks, vibrant blue skies, mismatched saucers & teacups, other people’s birthdays…

How Can I Make My Travelling Dreams A Reality?

“For the past year I’ve had my heart set on going to the UK and travelling for a few months, and I was meant to be saving up all year, but so far I haven’t got one cent to my name, it’s so depressing! I want this to happen so bad, and yet I feel like it is so unattainable, how can I realise my dream?”

Happy Birthday Video

Just a little video about my birthday & a major THANK YOU to everyone for their well-wishes!

Size Vanity

Size doesn’t mean anything. Being an 0, an 8 or an 18 is irrelevant — especially in this day & age, where so many companies assign “sizes” based on vanity & consumer feedback.

Summer Essentials 2007

Tennis lessons, sunblock, postcards, lip venom, photobooth strips & more!

Is Your Lover Good For You?

If you think about yourself as an individual — even as an individual with grand plans & lots of enthusiasm — it can be hard to get things done, & to achieve what we want to. When we’re surrounded by positive, uplifting people who encourage us, it makes life so much easier.

Daily Outfit -- 17th September 2007

Wearing my new sun-hat & grey sweater dress!

Update

I updated my guide to Melbourne…

Skinny Bitch -- Book Review

I have read reviews of Skinny Bitch that say it’s like reading something written by your best girlfriend. If that is true, we are in worse trouble than we thought. In real life, I wouldn’t give someone who spoke to me like that the time of day, never mind the accolade of being my “best girlfriend”! Hopefully you wouldn’t either!

Wardrobe Taming -- Day Eight

Today we’re going to get rid of the stuff you’ve decided not to keep, & we’re also going to make some rules for the future. This will help keep you in control of your spending & your look!

Wardrobe Taming -- Day Seven

Okay my darling, it’s time to organise that closet!

Daily Outfit -- 14th September 2007

Trying out the new, bejewelled turban!

Wardrobe Taming -- Day Six

Today I’d like you to investigate your shopping habits. As you’ve been going through all this stuff you own, you might have noticed patterns cropping up.

Carousel -- Week Ending 14th September 2007

An interview with me, as well as the 7 habits of highly ineffective people, lovely photoshoots & a rant about solariums!

Things I Love Thursday

Today I love being sung happy birthday by my psychic friend in Texas with a faux-Russian accent, big striped sunhats, bejewelled turbans, passionate waiters, blowing out candles, massage…

Wardrobe Taming -- Day Five

Today is all about finding inspiration & deciding on a new aesthetic direction — or, if you already have an idea of your aesthetic direction, refining it.

Happy Birthday To Me!

Happy birthday to me, happy birthday to me! Happy birthday, dear Gala, happy birthday to me!

Daily Outfit -- 12th September 2007

The incredible Camille sent me this t-shirt at the beginning of the week & I have barely taken it off since then! (I have even been sleeping in it, shhhh…)

Wardrobe Taming -- Day Four

Your fourth task is to talk to someone else about your wardrobe & clothing choices. If you can, pick someone who knows you well, & whose style you respect or admire!

Wardrobe Taming -- Day Three

Gala's Top 5 Beauty Tips

I am always fascinated when I hear other people’s secret beauty tips, & I thought you might be in the same boat! So, here are some of my beauty tricks, & I’d love it if you spilled the beans on what keeps you looking (& feeling) amazing too!

Daily Outfit -- 10th September 2007

I’m wearing a whole lot of items I never usually wear, in honour of the wardrobe taming series!

Equestrian Chic

I was never one of those “horsey girls”. You know, those ones who were NUTS about horses. They read The Pony Club books, had weekly riding lessons & obsessively doodled the likeness of their favourite horse, “Speckle”, in the margins of their math book. Maybe you were one of them! I wasn’t.

Wardrobe Taming -- Day Two

Your mission for today is to wear that piece of clothing. You can style it up with whatever else you’ve got.

Wardrobe Taming -- Day One

What’s stopping you from looking your best? When I say best, I mean drop-dead gorgeous. I mean, you could show up Angelina Jolie/Brad Pitt on the red carpet. I mean feeling good in everything you own. So, what’s holding you back?

Daily Outfit -- 8th September 2007

I wore this to go to see Fawn Gehweiler’s exhibition at Outre gallery! (I have two of Fawn’s girls tattooed on my right arm! I am a big fan.)

How To Be The Life Of The Party (Podcast)

Will you be drinking or partaking of substances? Is a long walk on the cards? How about dancing? Are the other guests the sort of ruffians that are likely to spill or throw drinks? (If the answer to this question is yes, maybe it’s time for new friends!)

Daily Outfit -- 7th September 2007

What I wore to the Object of Desire show last night…

Fragrance Frenzy

“So gloriously authentic that you can almost hear the Oompa Loompas singing. A lovely, straightforward, wearable chocolate, with a warmth and richness that melts into your skin and a hint of caramelized sugar. Sophisticated enough to satisfy our grown-up side, delicious enough to bring out our inner Veruca Salt.”

Carousel -- Week Ending 7th September 2007

A weird love ritual, a very Addams Family piece of music, Angelina Jolie, how to overcome jealousy, Prada socks & more!

Things I Love Thursday

Things I Love Thursday is about building appreciation & gratitude. Here are the things I appreciate today.

Going Crazy

Focus on the good things in your life. Write a list every morning of the things for which you are grateful. Even if it is just that you have a roof over your head, that the sky is blue, that your partner loves you.

Style Wars

Show coverage, plus some glorious audience outfits.

Kimono Love!

I bought my kimono & I am head over heels in LOVE.

Virginity

Should a girl give her boyfriend her virginity for his birthday?

Quote of the Day -- 5th September 2007

Oscar Wilde, baby!

Corset Remix

The other day, a friend & I were discussing our old gothic predilections. It turned out we were both harbouring corsets in our closets, but since we both felt like we had moved past our old style, didn’t really know what to do with them. Corsets, especially the good ones, tend to be really expensive & some of them are gorgeous pieces of work. Too precious to throw out or give away, but too ‘goth’ to wear. However, the more I thought about it, the more I realised there was a middle ground.

DELIGHT or SMITE? (September)

Delight: major nailpolish, taking time out, clip-on earrings, setting new goals, & more!

iCiNG Day -- Announcement!

i.D.U.D. is no more. iCiNG Day has been instigated instead!

Daily Outfit -- 3rd September 2007

Outfit I wore to the Nicolangela spring launch.

Fashion Darling #002

An interview with me in Cosmopolitan magazine!

How To Be Confident

Being ‘different’ is always harder than being ‘normal’ & fitting in, towing the line. There is always more effort involved. Any schmuck can wear jeans & comb their hair & be a lemming. It takes someone with guts & a bit of a twist to do something different.

Daily Outfit -- 2nd September 2007

What I wore to the Motorola Melbourne Spring Fashion Week (phew!) opening night party!

Gift-Giving

It can be hard to buy someone a present, especially if they are the type of person who already has everything they need.

Making Dali Proud

Moustaches in honour of Dali!

August 2007

Daily Outfit -- 31st August 2007

I went kimono shopping yesterday & it has definitely influenced my outfit choice!

Diana, Princess of Wales

Lessons we learned from Diana, Princess of Wales.

Carousel -- Week Ending 31st August 2007

Links for the week! How eating less meat helps the environment, how to stay motivated, Dita Von Teese pictures, lovely collages & mooore!

Things I Love Thursday

Violet hair, birthdays, gift vouchers & more!

I Love New York!

New York is my favourite city in the entire world. I have been obsessed with it since I was a child — it seemed like the total opposite of the sleepy city in which I grew up.

How To Survive Fashion Week

Voila! The fashion week survival kit, as well as some clever tips to keep you on the right side of Anna Wintour…

Will My Boyfriend Cheat On Me?

“I have issues with my boyfriend’s history. He has had sex with nine other girls and hooked up with countless others… and while he has so far been faithful to me, I’m afraid that his past behavior will eventually take over. Is that legitimate? He says it hurts him when I say that, but I can’t help stop thinking about his tendencies and his flirtatious personality.”

Dissecting Men's Style

A breakdown of some stylish men’s outfits, & how you can achieve a similar effect.

Being The New Kid

“I’m 15 and I’ve lived in the same small rural town since 1st grade! My family’s moving a few hours away to be by my grandpa (he’s sick) and I’m going to be plopped into the middle of a big (to me haha) city high school that’s twice the size of my old one… I’m kind of nervous as I’ve never been a “new kid” before. So how do I make friends and deal with the first few days when I don’t know anyone and am sitting alone at the lunch table? I’m not sure how to deal with leaving all my friends behind.”

Daily Outfit -- 27th August 2007

I wish I was at Burning Man, but I’m not, so I decided to dress like I was!

Betsey Johnson's Apartment

Her incredible decorating skills.

Quote of the Day -- 26th August 2007

A quote from Anaïs Nin.

Daily Outfit -- 24th August 2007

I bring the pink!

Happy Birthday Betty Dodson!

Some ways to celebrate the birth of this brilliant sex educator.

Carousel -- Week Ending 24th August 2007

Food cravings, magazines on your cellphone & Burning Man safer sex information (plus more)!

Daily Outfit -- 23rd August 2007

My new Country Road dress styled differently.

My Birthday Wishlist!

Things I would love to receive for my birthday! Dachshunds, jewellery, lip gloss & more!

International Dress Up Day -- Your Help Please!

I ask for suggestions about the direction of i.D.U.D…

Things I Love Thursday

Things which are making me happy today!

More International Dress Up Day #007 Pictures!

Pictures from Allison, Ivy & Carolyn.

Daily Outfit -- 22nd August 2007

New dress from Country Road!

My Best Friend Is In Love & Ignores Me!

What to do when your friend is bitten by the love bug & disappears…

American Apparel For Summer 07

In celebration of the fact that American Apparel recently opened their Australian outlet (YAY!), here are some of their pieces that I am dying to own this summer…

iCiNG Manifesto

iCiNG is about dolling yourself up, inside & out. It’s for girls who read Nabokov & wear stilettos, boys who appreciate glamour & take style risks.

Daily Outfit -- 18th August 2007 (Part II)

What I wore out (& my friend Melisa’s outfit).

International Dress Up Day #007 Pictures!

Pictures from Supernikkidee, Claire & Lorena.

Style Tips -- 20th August 2007

Write a wish on a balloon, listen to different music, wear red lipstick…

International Dress Up Day #007 -- Gala's Pictures

I dressed as Veruca Salt!

David Jones Designer Collections Summer 2007

Show coverage in haiku form.

Daily Outfit -- 18th August 2007

Going to my first fashion show of the season…

Summer Is Coming!

Three outfits I would love to wear this summer.

Carousel -- Week Ending 17th August 2007

Links to other places! Questions that will super-charge your life, a column on disposable fashion by my favourite fashion writer & lots of beautiful photography… plus more!

Cheap Glee

Sometimes you just need to be perked up — & sometimes your wallet’s feeling a little bit lighter than you would like. In these situations, what you need is a shot of cheap glee. Here are some ways to get it…

Jennifer

Today is the 16th of August, my friend Jennifer’s birthday. She would have been 24 today, but she committed suicide when she was 15.

International Dress Up Day #007 Theme!

The theme is super-villains!

O Magazine & Ellen Barkin

What exactly is she trying to say here? That women over 50 should cover up & shuffle down the street as if invisible? That once you hit your 50th birthday, your time in the spotlight is over? Time to eat at the early-bird special, grab your Zimmer frame & don orthopaedic shoes?

Daily Outfit -- 14th August 2007

Wearing my new jeans & looking mad casual.

How To Start A Blog

Of all the questions I receive, number one MUST be “how do I start a blog?”. The other day I replied to four such emails, only to have another one come in overnight!

International Dress Up Day #007 Suggestions!

Suggestions please!

Nu Rave

How to dress “nu rave” without looking like a complete goober… !

Napping

There is a lot of stigma about napping — the art of bowing out of life for a little while so that you can lay down your head & have a sweet little snooze. People feel guilty about it. “There’s too much to do!”, they bellow. “Who has time to nap?!”

Party Preparation

What are your best party preparation tips?

Tarina Tarantino Ring!

My new Tarina Tarantino ring arrived! It’s like wearing an easter egg on my hand!

Daily Outfit -- 10th August 2007

Half “athletic chic” & half Victoria Beckham…

Carousel -- Week Ending 10th August 2007

Links! How to reduce your carbon footprint, 10 ways to instantly build self-confidence, some great fashion blogs & rings which look like a scoop of ice-cream…

Fashion Darling #001

A scan of my first fashion column for Cosmopolitan magazine!

Maintaining Your Individuality In A Relationship

How to remain your own person when you’re living with your lover.

Style Icons: Madonna

“I think you can be defiant & rebellious & still be strong & positive.” — Madonna

Frilly Knickers

My lingerie commandments & an assortment of cute knickers!

Daily Outfit -- 6th August 2007

I am dressed inappropriately for the weather. & my first Cosmopolitan column came out today!

How To Find A Boyfriend

“Well, my problem is that I’m still very young. I’m only fifteen, but there is only one thing on my mind — getting a boyfriend. It seems silly when I write it out, but everybody around me has so much experience in the boy department but I feel left out. I’ve never had a “real” boyfriend, only one or two little flings in middle school. I really just want somebody with whom I can share good times, and I’m just seeking some male attention. I don’t know what seems to be wrong me with me, but I can never get a guy! Do you have any suggestions?”

Japan Makes Me Happy

A carnival of Japanese joy!

Daily Outfit -- 3rd August 2007

Today I dressed as Miss Schiaparelli Antoinette, a distant relative of the beheaded monarch.

DELIGHT or SMITE? (August)

My take on August. I love sticker photobooths, heart-shaped lockets, & realisations…

Men's Summer Style '07

Ben asked me what I thought men should be wearing this summer, so I illustrated my point with several cute boys from street fashion blogs.

Carpe Diem!

How to really seize the moment!

July 2007

Pole-Dancing & Raunch Culture

What do you think about pole-dancing?

What's In My Bag?

Here’s a collage of what was in my bag today…

Daily Outfit -- 30th July 2007

I love my pomp.

Style Icons: Marchesa Luisa Casati

She wore live snakes as jewellery, & was infamous for her late-night walks, during which she would walk cheetahs on diamond-studded leashes, while completely naked beneath her furs.

Daily Outfit -- 29th July 2007

Here’s what I wore to the Sydney bloggers high tea!

Daily Outfit -- 27th July 2007

These photos are not colour-corrected. I think I was the brightest person on the street yesterday.

Summer Fun In Your Backyard

“Hello, I have a little backyard that I’m just dying to make into the perfect place for picnics and parties during the summer, but I’m not quite sure what I want it to look like! I’m looking for small backyard inspiration, any suggestions would be wonderful! Furniture, lights, decor, etc etc.”

Carousel -- Week Ending 27th July 2007

A video by Eve Ensler, hair mecca on Flickr & my thoughts on blogging!

Last Bunch Of International Dress Up Day #006 Photos

You’re all so incredibly awesome!

What Do You Wish You Still Owned?

Trends change, bodies grow, people move on — & clothing gets left behind. What items of clothing do you wish you still had?

Daily Outfit -- 25th July 2007

When he saw my hair, my boyfriend said, “Nice puff”.

Old London Town

“I was wondering if you would perhaps ask the iCiNG bowl for lesser-known things to do in London? Places to shop, places to visit etc. etc. etc. Everyone I’ve asked has said “Camden Camden Camden!” but I find Camden a little … too of-the-moment.”

My Eye Makeup Makes Me Look Like A Clown!

“Recently, some of my relatives gave me an AMAZING make-up kit. It has great color selections, especially in the eye make-up department. At the young age of 13, I want to keep my make-up relatively subdued, but whenever I put on anything other than a sheer beige color, I can’t help but feel like a clown! You often wear bright, crazy eye make-up, and I was hoping that you had some tips for wearing them with confidence.”

New Boots!

Oooooooh I love them.

Even More International Dress Up Day Pictures!

More fabulous girls dressing as their childhood ambition!

Clothes Shopping Tips

Just because you can slide those jeans over your hips does not mean you should own them! When looking at clothing, always always always take your body shape into account, & trends be damned.

Daily Outfit -- 24th July 2007

I’m feeling really summery today, even though it isn’t particularly warm! I went shopping with my mother yesterday… here’s some of my new schwag!

People I Like (Who You Might Like Too)

John Halcyon Styn, Rob Brezsny & Guy Kawasaki.

More International Dress Up Day #006 Pictures!

Making our inner children proud since 2007!

Sydney Fashion Blogger High Tea

This time next week, I’ll be in Sydney! (I’m so excited.) I wanted to invite those of you who live there (or on the outskirts, or who feel like a nice long Sunday drive!) to the Sydney fashion blogger high tea! I was invited as the “guest of honour” (ooh la la), & I’d love to see some of you there!

International Dress Up Day #006 Pictures!

I love all of these so much, don’t they bring a huge smile to your face?!

Gala's International Dress Up Day #006 Video!

When I was young, I wanted to be a chocolate tester. I think we can blame Roald Dahl (my hero) for that — Charlie & The Chocolate Factory was a major book for me.

Daily Outfit -- 21st July 2007

Here is what I wore to go out for a Japanese meal with my parents, half-sister, her husband & my boyfriend. It was tasty & we had a good time.

International Dress Up Day #006 Reminder!

The first i.D.U.D. picture!

Daily Outfit -- 20th July 2007

I look like a scary doll!

Carousel -- Week Ending 20th July 2007

3 piece suits, a photoshoot by Steven Meisel & MORE...

The Rules

Rules for your life. Do you have any?

Happy Gonzo Day!

Today would have been Hunter S. Thompson’s 70th birthday, so I dressed in homage.

I Love Victoria Beckham!

I never thought I’d see the day.

Daily Outfit -- 17th July 2007

Wearing a button-down dress, wool stockings, big boots, bangles & a turban!

I Don't Know What To Do With My Life!

“I just ended my four-month contract with a company that paid well and had good prospects just because it really bored me to death and now I feel like I should’ve tried harder to make things work.”

Daily Outfit -- 16th July 2007

Super-layers! Muted pink & black.

International Dress Up Day #006 Theme!

The theme is — dress up as your childhood ambition!

Keeping Your Relationship Fresh

Go camping, have a picnic, kiss, remove distractions, send racy text messages…

The Fashionable Jew

“I have to abide by some rather strict religious rules with regard to dress – not just at school, everywhere. (The rules: no pants, nothing tight or revealing, shirts up to the collar bone and past the elbows, absolutely no exposed midriff, skirts past the knee, no visible underwear, nothing transparent or too sexy in general.) I was wondering if you could help me get out of my rut, or if I should just resort to wearing a burka.”

Daily Outfit -- 14th July 2007

Channelling the Marchesa Luisa Casati & wishing I was in the Hollywood Hills.

Majority Rules!

Pink it is!

Hello Blondie!

I got my hair cut! Should I dye it pink or purple?

Carousel -- Week Ending 13th July 2007

A whole lot of link lovin’ — how to sharpen your intuition, tasty toothpaste, the dirt on L’Oreal & moooore!

Daily Outfit -- 12th July 2007

Nubby Twiglet hooked me up with some goodies!

Things I Love Thursday

Learning to appreciate small things makes life much more pleasant. Here are some things I’m loving today.

International Dress Up Day #006 Suggestions!

Ideas please!

Mary-Kate Ripped Me Off!

Mary-Kate Olsen ripped off my look! But I forgive her… wink wink!

Daily Outfit -- 10th July 2007

A quilted skirt & a scarf around my ankle, oh my!

Irregular Choice Shoes I Love & The Imaginary People Who Wear Them

Beautiful shoes by Irregular Choice & a whole slew of people I imagined wearing them.

Dealing With Online Nastiness

“I remember when someone wrote a nasty comment about you, and you handled it so well! Could you dish out some advice on how to handle online nastiness… like outright rudeness, public bitching and people who seem to have nothing better to do with their time than insult you and make you angry? I’ve been dealing with a fair bit of this lately and would LOVE it if you wrote an article about it!”

Long Distance Love

Having a long-distance lover can be one of the most exciting things ever, or it can be one of the most heart-rending experiences of your life… & sometimes both at the same time…

Daily Outfit -- 6th July 2007

I am dressed like an excommunicated socialite.

DELIGHT or SMITE? (July)

Delightful: sequins, sandwiches, hats, evil breakfasts, Terry Richardson (& more)!

Carousel -- Week Ending 5th June 2007

More celebrity links than you can shake a stick at… though why you’d want to in the first place is anybody’s guess…

Social Networking?

What are your thoughts?

How To Have A Great Picnic

Humans tend to be the best sort of guest, though if you’re having a particularly trying week, you might prefer to picnic with pets, stuffed animals or a handsome-looking gherkin…

Daily Outfit -- 3rd July 2007

Channelling Diana Vreeland & Little Edie! One of my favourite outfits.

Gala's Guide To Tennis Chic

Start spending time at a country club. Remember to wear pearls & get blitzed on gin & tonics like the rest of them…

June 2007

Carousel -- Week Ending 29th June 2007

Links for your clicking pleasure — Ellen Von Unwerth, Johnny Depp, crazy cakes & bras which fit!

EFT Follow-Up

A follow-up to the original EFT post & an offer.

Daily Outfit -- 28th June 2007

I wore this to buy Chinese takeaways but I think I made friends with the staff for life, so it’s okay!

Vegas, Baby, Vegas!

“Hi Gala,

Ever been to Las Vegas? I have just been told by my work that they’re going to be sending me there for a conference in September (lucky me!). I figure I’ll take a couple of days of annual leave to take a look around and shop (as I’d have to pay for my own accommodation/food for those couple of days and the short notice doesn’t leave much saving time, I won’t be able to make it longer). Any tips on must-dos, best places to shop (particularly those with most bang for your buck) and on good, relatively cheap, places to stay?”

Initial Rings

I love Girl Props. I feel like Liberace.

EFT

EFT is a form of healing & therapy that you can use on yourself. Here I explain a bit about it & film myself doing it!

Eating Disorders

Eating disorders, the effect they have & the not-so-glamorous side of starving yourself.

More Days To Celebrate

Some fabulous people, their birthdays & ways we can commemorate them.

I Love Sarah Jessica Parker (& I Don't Care What You Say)

Sarah Jessica Parker has received a LOT of flack for her ‘Bitten’ line… I thought I should bite back!

Why You Should Go To Sales

Best shoes EVER.

Daily Outfit -- 22nd June 2007

How to wear a vintage nighty without it looking like you’re about to go to bed!

The Cheap Date Guide To Style -- Book Review

A great book — some quotes.

A Basic Shoe Collection

“I’m currently in the process of trying to expand my shoe collection (on a budget) – but since I can’t afford my every whim (just-graduating-ex-university-student) I’m looking for a a well-rounded shoe collection. Sneakers, heels, flats, boots, sandals, etc… & I was curious to know what you think the ‘basic’ shoes are to have in your closet, before you start fleshing each type out? I know trends change but I mean those timeless basic shoes a girl can fall back on when her partner’s grandma drops by unexpectedly to take them out to dinner… (happened last night, I swear!)”

Even More Pictures From International Dress Up Day #005!

Beautiful ladies! Kelly, Lux, Annie, Gilda & Katoo!

Hand & Nail Care

How to look after your hands on a daily basis, how to give yourself a home manicure & how to choose a good manicurist if you can’t abide doing it yourself!

Daily Outfit -- 19th June 2007

I declare today to be Valley of the Dolls day. I’m wearing a candy pink vintage babydoll nightgown, a yellow bow belt, pink heels & a tiara!

More Evidence Of International Dress Up Day #005!

More more more! From Vanessa, Diana, Rachel (who made an awesome video), Nessa, Annaloren & Zay!

Pow-Wows & The Law Of Attraction

Being in charge of your own life versus complaining for the sake of it.

More International Dress Up Day #005 Pictures!

Beautiful creations from Ashley, Kori, Becki, Lalumiere, Aimee, Victoria, NoirMuse, Candice & her friend Rachel!

Exciting News!

I’m going to have a column in Cosmopolitan magazine! OH my GOD! Etc.!

International Dress Up Day #005 Pictures!

Alter egos & evil twins of Nadine, Fred, Anna Rose, Lola, [a} & Regina!

International Dress Up Day #005 -- Gala's Pictures

I dressed up as Bunnyhead Darling. Her vices include fast cars & pickled onions. She also likes hanging out in a bikini & a fur coat, as evidenced!

Today Is International Dress-Up Day #005!

Reminder!

Non-Monotonous Summer Dressing

“This is inspired by your post on winter dressing… and your post on T-shirts seems to have anticipated my question, so hopefully you will feel up to tackling my problem, or at least giving me a few links in the right direction. Unlike you lucky people who are moving into winter (my favorite season – seriously!) I am living in Tokyo and things are getting hot and humid very fast. Apart from simply wearing less, do you have any suggestions for dressing for summer? Somehow I am hoping that I can layer things, even though it will probably just make me unbearably hot. I just feel that having a top – say a t-shirt – and a bottom – say a pair of cotton trousers – gets monotonous. Advice? Yoroshiku ne!”

Name Analysis

Have you ever done this? I love it, it’s so much fun.

Carousel -- Week Ending 14th June 2007

Links! How to make your workout more interesting, why French women look so chic, Japanese street fashion, a lovely girl in purple & some socks which caused a stir…

A Slogan For iCiNG

Help!

Zee 'Air Down There

Someone asks me what I think of pubic hair grooming. I give my opinion, & then everyone else gives theirs too!

Grey Gardens

I love Little Edie, & I want to have a Grey Gardens party. BYO flea spray.

I Made Cupcakes!

I made cupcakes which didn’t look perfect & my boyfriend said something very inspiring.

DELIGHT or SMITE? (June)

On the DELIGHT list this month: big cocktail rings, peanut butter, being a greenie, NYC. On the SMITE list: insecurity, energy vampires, television, unstable ex-lovers! & MORE!

Daily Outfit -- 10th June 2007

I’m wearing a striped shirt, shorts, pearls, ripped stockings & blue high heels.

International Dress-Up Day #005 Theme!

The theme for International Dress-Up Day #005 (on Saturday the 16th of June) is… Dress up as your alter-ego or evil twin! Here are some pictures (& a song!) to get you in the mood.

Carousel -- Week Ending 8th June 2007

Cooking with Grandma, well-dressed girls & an awesome/terrifying way of photographing wedding dresses.

Daily Outfit -- 7th June 2007

Lolita sunglasses with a ruffle-fronted shirt & shiny metallic leggings.

A Pre-Shopping Primer (& Podcast)

“The purpose of this podcast is to mentally prepare you for a shopping trip, whether large or small. As much as I love shopping, sometimes it drives me a little bit crazy. There are so many things to keep in order that we all need a little help sometimes. I’m going to give you some helpful tips & ideas for navigating the shops like a pro.”

The Essential Guide To Dressing For Your Shape

This is a very short piece — the sort of thing you can print out, highlight the parts which apply to you & then chuck it in your bag for whenever you go shopping & get stuck.

The Fabulous! Festival Blog Carnival

iCiNG is the host of the Fabulous! Festival blog carnival this week, bringing you a selection of fashion & style articles from around the internet!

International Dress-Up Day #005 Theme Ideas!

It’s that time again! That time when we all sit around wracking our brains for a good theme for International Dress-Up Day!

Daily Outfit -- 2nd June 2007

I am standing in my shower with purple hair & a tiara looking like.. a mentalist.

Purple Hair

My hair is purple!

Increasing Your Thrifting Luck

iCiNG geniuses share their hints for getting the most out of the thrift-shopping experience.

Gala's Kissing Boot-Camp

I’m quite small so I like to crawl into people’s laps & sit opposite them. This way they are TRAPPED & can’t escape until my lips are satisfied! I am sneaky like that.

May 2007

james&august Competition Winners!

My five winners & a whole lot of honourable mentions! Great responses all around.

"Business Casual"

If you don’t want to fake it — & I don’t blame you — dress like yourself, but imagine your mother is there while you’re choosing your outfit. Run her voice through your head. “Those shoes are completely impractical!” “I think that skirt is a bit short.” “Oh, you just CANNOT wear that.” (If your mother is awesome, like mine, pretend one of the women on Coronation Street is your ma instead.)

Blog Carnival Submissions

I’m hosting the Fabulous! Festival…

Things I Learned From Watching Miss Universe 2007

Some people enter a room & even before they introduce themselves, you know you’re in for a sleigh-ride to Boredomville. In Miss Universe, you could tell the girls who had a little something going on upstairs — their eyes sparkled, they smiled mischievously, they walked with a purpose — & that made them far more attractive.

How To Be Genuine With People You Dislike

This may involve saying something like, “I don’t know that that’s necessary” or simply, “let’s not kid ourselves, I would rather eat a razorblade sandwich than continue this façade any longer!”

Making Short Hair More Interesting

“I had my hair cut short for the first time a few months ago, and I love it. Not having to worry about bad hair days is marvellous. But I’m getting bored with it looking the same all the time! Since you’ve got short hair, too, I wondered if you’ve got any tips for making it look more interesting?”

A Round-Heeled Woman -- Book Review

A book review & a WHOLE lot of suggestions of other books to read!

Daily Outfit -- 25th May 2007

I was meant to go to a fashion parade last night but I got there late because… I was getting dressed! It doesn’t get any more fashion than that. This is one of my favourite outfits ever ever ever.

Carousel -- Week Ending 25th May 2007

Claudia Kishi’s outfits, planning a vintage roadtrip, 50’s beauty tips & more.

Things To Do In Summer

Make friends with someone who has a swimming pool — or find one you can sneak into easily.

T-Shirt Mania!

Great t-shirts for every possible occasion.

james&august Giveaway!

Also known as, “Yay! Free things!”

Possibly The Last Batch Of i.D.U.D. #004 Photos!

Film noir-themed shots by Courtney, Lalumiere & Lux.

Things To Do In Winter

Buy a pair of motorcycle boots & wear them everywhere — with pearls.

International Dress-Up Day #004 Picture

Lorena’s photos!

Daily Outfit -- 22nd May 2007

I think this is the first polo top I’ve worn since I left school (we wore them for “physical education”, except they were much nastier than this one). I have always secretly lusted after polo tops, but thought I wouldn’t be able to pull it off. I think I managed it, though!

Disguising A Chubby Body Part!

“One quick question that might prompt another article for us guys who read you. Have you any tips on disguising or hiding a big tummy? I have more weight than I really need, but it is mostly concentrated on my belly – how can I make sure I look my best (while I try to lose some weight at the same time)?”

Femme Fatales

Film noir-themed shots by NoirMuse, Kara, Hoyan & Jess!

Pictures pictures pictures!

Film noir-themed shots by Audrey Louise, Vanessa & Joodie.

More International Dress-Up Day #004 Photos!

Film noir-themed shots by Candice, Jenny, Casey & Carol.

41 Years Old & An XXXL -- What Should I Wear?

“If 40 is the new 30, and I’m a 41 yo 3XL girl, what should I be wearing?”

Gala's International Dress-Up Day #004 Pictures

My film noir pictures!

Happy International Dress-Up Day!

Film noir-themed shots by Nadine.

Daily Outfit -- 18th May 2007

Today was cold! We decided to go out & get fish & chips for dinner, which involved a walk to… dun dun dunnn… the suburbs! We kitted up accordingly. I ended up looking like Swedish Tank Girl. Okay, I thought so anyway.

Carousel -- Week Ending 18th May 2007

Links! When Prom Dresses Attack, Japanese metrosexuals, purple rooms & more!

Living Situations

“They live in adjoined houses with a hallway that connects the two homes.”

International Dress-Up Day #004 Theme!

The theme for International Dress-Up Day #004 is FILM NOIR!

How To Buy A Good Pair Of Shoes

Tips for buying a pair of shoes that won’t cripple you after an hour’s wear!

A Fat Rant

A video by Joy Nash on accepting yourself.

The Break-Up Rules

Relationships are the accumulation of mutual respect, the sharing of secrets & experiences. By contrast, break-ups are painful & ugly, especially if you’re the one who has been dumped. But where do we draw the line? What is acceptable break-up behaviour, & what kind of thing cements your place as an inhuman monster? What are the break-up rules?

A Solution To My Problem

After all my kvetching today about how I couldn’t wear that blue top from American Apparel… I threw this together & actually feel okay about it.

American Apparel Reviews

A review of American Apparel’s “Sheer Jersey Chemise” & “California Fleece Pants”.

International Dress-Up Day #004 Theme Suggestions!

Tell me your theme ideas!

Adorn Magazine's Remix Redux

The lovely Tricia Royal wrote me up in Adorn magazine…

Daily Outfit -- 12th May 2007 (& Some Homeware)

I’m wearing a hoodie dress & trying out a very casual look!

What To Do With Candles In Glass Jars?

“What do you do with the pretty glass holders the candles come in, once the candles are spent? Do you throw them away, or save them? Since the design on the glass was half the appeal, it seems like it would be a waste to throw it away. Do you think it would be tacky to save it?”

How To Adopt A New Skincare Routine

How to pull the old switcheroo on your skin without disaster!

A Friday Shopping Spree!

Beautiful things by DIY geniuses at Etsy.

Random Acts Of Kindness

Beth sent me an email outlining the secret messages she had been placing on people’s windshields…

Style Tips -- 10th May 2007

Bento boxes, glittery toenails & exciting voicemail messages!

Daily Outfit -- 9th May 2007

I love my wig. Ooh la la.

Top 5 Ways To Define Your Own Personal Style

A five-step process to help you cultivate an aesthetic.

Small Questions

I tackle thick ankles, long-lasting lipstick & how to make freckles look even.

DELIGHT or SMITE? (May)

Wigs, pop stars & motorcycle boots all make an appearance on the DELIGHT side of things.

iCiNG's May Crush List

There were two pieces of criteria that needed to be well-filled to get onto this list. Talent & sex appeal. I admit, sometimes I can be shallow. It is not just good enough to be clever — which is why people like Stephen Hawking are notably absent. It’s not okay just to be cute, either. Style without substance has never really been my bag.

Madame Pompadour

On an exploratory visit to the Victoria Markets, Ana & I stumbled across a shop called Madame Pompadour. It’s gorgeous — like something from a Francesca Lia Block book. It is INSANELY pink, a treasure trove of homeware, clothing & accessories. I took a whole bunch of pictures because I thought it was gorgeous.

How To Rock A Wig

“Oh my gosh, will you please write an article on how to wear a wig! I’ve tried cheap ones on at novelty shops before, but they just look like a Halloween costume on me. But your looks just wonderful, like I actually thought you dyed your hair for a minute. It doesn’t have to look completely natural, but I would love to know how you pulled that off without making it look like it was just a silly costume. Also, what did you do with your hair underneath it?”

Daily Outfit -- 1st May 2007 (Take Two)

Ana & I dressed up to go to the Melbourne Supper Club. I’m wearing a wig!

Daily Outfit -- 1st May 2007

A turquoise dress, big sunglasses & great graffiti!

Living It Up At Burning Man

There are so many essential packing lists & pages of information on how to do Burning Man properly, & attempting to re-create or better those would be an exercise in futility. I can, however, tell you about my experiences & give you some suggestions.

April 2007

Eyelash Extensions!

The end result AMAZED me. Pascaline uses thick black lashes which create a very obvious, but still subtle, effect. I was so thrilled when I looked in the mirror, my lashes were long & thick & gorgeous.

Tipple Of Choice?

I just discovered my “new drink”. It’s been months since I really had a drink, I just don’t do it much anymore. But last night I drank violette liqueur over ice & it was AMAZING.

Daily Outfit -- 29th April 2007

My exceptionally stylish friend Ana is staying with me for a week! Here’s what we wore to the markets today…

Daily Outfit -- 27th April 2007 -- Part Two!

A rejected outfit from yesterday, & what I wore instead.

I Was A Teenage Goth

I guess I decided to do some researching on ‘goth’ or something, & after being horrified to discover that eldergoths (HAHA!) thought Marilyn Manson was a blight on the name of gawth, I decided that if I was going to do it, I would do it properly.

Daily Outfit -- 27th April 2007

No eye makeup today. I am about to go on an adventure! (You will hear all about it soon.)

Flickr Favourites -- 27th April 2007

A selection of my Flickr favourites for the week. Lots of bright colours!

Homesickness

“As one who travels and lives far from home, I thought you might have some advice about my situation. I am about to go away to a college which is a 9 to 10 hour drive from home. Although I am not the type to be homesick, I find that I’m uneasy about the concept of only coming home for major holidays. Obviously, you are used to living quite far from home, and I was wondering if you had any thoughts on the whole thing.”

Daily Outfit -- 26th April 2007

Not so glamorous. My yoga outfit.

A Super-Geeky Secret

An illustrated secret on an index card. Sshhhhh!

Self-Interview Questions

I was thinking of recording a self-interview podcast with questions submitted by you… so if there’s anything you’d like me to answer, let me know!

International Dress-Up Day #003 In El Salvador!

Angelica from El Salvador celebrated her unbirthday with a piñata!

International Dress-Up Day #003 Pictures Again!

Australians do it better! Or do they?!

Daily Outfit -- 24th April 2007

Yesterday we spent thousands of dollars at Starfish (they stock Laurie Foon, who I LOVE). The pants are one item.

More International Dress-Up Day #003 Pictures!

These are SUCH adorable photos! It looks like everyone had a really good time.

International Dress-Up Day #003

I drank pink cocktails, ate profiteroles, wore a tiara, danced around the living room & had a really good time in general. Without further ado, photographic evidence!

I'm Back!

Just wanted to let you know I am home safe & sound, back in the warmth of Melbourne!

Be Your Own Superhero

Stop looking outside yourself for people to emulate. Stop waiting to meet someone who is going to “make you happy”.

Jem & The Holograms

Usually I would never do this… but it totally brightened my day. I present to you: Jem & The Holograms versus Le Tigre!

International Dress-Up Day Reminder!

Wear ribbons, crowns & frills, blow up balloons, eat baked goods & put dollops of cream on your nose, take photobooth pictures with bunny ears on, lie in a park or climb trees with headphones on, eat fairy bread…

Burlesque Chic

For anyone who wants to incorporate a little old-world glamour into their daily dressing, here are some ways to do it…

What's In My Bag?

Otherwise known as, what am I taking on the plane to New Zealand?

Au Revoir!

I’m flying out of Melbourne this afternoon for a short jaunt in New Zealand. I’m going over for my mother’s 60th birthday, which is very exciting!

Recent Music Obsessions

I recently had someone write in asking me what I was listening to at the moment. This is good — much better than asking what my favourite bands of all time are. My tastes change & evolve so much that I could never really answer that honestly or fairly. Here are some tracks I’m enjoying at the moment…

Threadbanger

Thread Heads is a show about fashion & this episode features me & my website!

Melbourne iCiNG Brunch Re-Cap

The first Melbourne iCiNG Brunch yesterday was fantastic! Much coffee (& chai) was drunk, eggs were devoured & mushrooms were prodded at. Here are some photos for your viewing pleasure.

Commenting Policy

After four months (to the DAY!), I have received my first negative comment. Well, not negative so much as a blatant personal attack. It reminded me that I needed to write up a comment policy! So thank you for your contribution, Felix!

A Very Short Guide To Shopping in Wellington

“Ms Darling, Next weekend I am off to Wellington for the first time ever. As well as joining you for afternoon tea, I plan on celebrating my trip with a pair of far-too-expensive jeans (and possibly a fantastic new coat). I know nothing about the stores in Wellington however. What are some shops you would recommend for a girl after her designer-fix?”

Quotes of the Day -- 14th April 2007

Today I felt like other people have said it better than I can manage.

iCiNG's Definition Of Chic

Yesterday, Kristen suggested that we all — as a community! — compile a list of what we think is chic. In her words, a “positive, fun, happy” list. I think it’s a brilliant idea, so here it is! I think a chic person…

Carousel -- Week Ending 13th April 2007

Links! The gentle art of selling yourself, how to get rid of warts (duct tape!), great food, a dress-up doll & a guide to Tokyo shopping, among other glorious things.

Apartment Living & The Single Gal

I recently had a request from somebody who wanted to see more photos of my apartment in Auckland, New Zealand. The good news is, I have a lot of photos I can show you. However, most of the pictures have people in them too. I guess I didn’t think at the time that one day I would be doing an online show-&-tell of where I used to live!

Modern Manners

A call for a return to manners, civility & poise! I believe that the days of being petulant & stroppy must end! I am bored by girls who chew gum with their mouth open, frustrated by those who drag their feet while they walk, disappointed by boys who eat with their elbows on the table.

Sleepytime

Nice things for sleepytime… eye-masks, nighties & cotton pyjama pants.

Ebay Glee

I went on a spending spree on Ebay at midnight. Here’s my loot.

International Dress-Up Day #003 Theme!

The theme for International Dress-Up Day #003 is…

International Dress-Up Day #003 Theme Suggestions!

Let me know your thoughts for International Dress-Up Day on the 21st of April…

Marriage -- The Final Frontier

If you were going to ask someone to marry you, how would you do it? If you already have, or someone has asked you, how did it happen? What are your thoughts on marriage in general?

Paparazzi Photos

But what about those times when you’re at an event & a photographer approaches you, asking to take your photograph for x magazine? It is a time of panic for many of us.

Daily Outfit -- 5th April 2007 -- nighttime!

My outfit for the Curvy 2007 booklaunch.

Style Tips -- 7th April 2007

Sing to your plants.

iCiNG Podcast #002

This is a podcast detailing one of my weird, constant, secret habits! I am such a dork.

Carousel -- Week Ending 6th April 2007

Highlights of the week ending 6th April 2007.

Daily Outfit -- 5th April 2007

I’m dressed in honour of my amazing friend Ana.

More Melbourne-centric Stuff!

Events in Melbourne.

Wellington iCiNG Afternoon Tea!

I’m coming to Wellington this month for my mother’s 60th birthday party (yay!) & I thought that while I was there, it’d be really super to meet those of you who read iCiNG!

Daily Outfit -- 4th April 2007

This is not my shirt.

Destructive Relationships

There is really no way to improve a relationship that is bad for you. People rarely change, regardless of how much we want them to.

Miss Sixty Fall 2007

Okay, I know I don’t normally publish runway photos, but this collection — Miss Sixty Fall 2007 — is incredibly cool &, in my opinion, very wearable.

DELIGHT or SMITE? (April)

iCiNG’s hot or not picks for the month of April.

The Most Amazing Dress In The World

It’s hideous/amazing! I loooooove it! You’d be the biggest cupcake in all the land!

In Bed With Your Parents

Regardless of what you thought about the kind of relationship your parents had, you will subconsciously search to replicate it — or, if you’ve made a conscious decision that you don’t want to be like that, you’ll be looking for the complete opposite.

Daily Outfit -- 2nd April 2007

Again with the, “hi, I’m a nut!” outfits!

Super-dry Skin

“This may sound strange, but I love your skin! It’s really hard to pull off fair skin unless it’s absolutely flawless like yours, which sucks for us pale chicks. I have about the same skintone as you, but I have two major problems…”

Let's Get Physical!

I am dying to find some kind of exercise that I really enjoy, & I thought some of you might have good suggestions…

Daily Outfit -- 1st April 2007

Fashion + urban exploration + photographs = my life.

How To Keep Your Head Above Water (iCiNG Podcast #001 Transcript)

A transcript of iCiNG Podcast #001.

Melbourne iCiNG Brunch!

Two Sundays from now, I thought it would be great to have a little, informal iCiNG brunch. So come along, bring a friend if you’re shy, eat good bruschetta & drink some of the best coffee in the city (in my opinion). & talk to me, of course!

March 2007

iCiNG Podcast #001

This podcast is about the strangeness of the seasons changing over. It is such a weird time for so many people (myself included), so I thought I would make a podcast about how to triumph over the elements & feel sane again.

Putting The 'Rave' In Travel Since 1983!

How to make airplane travel less tedious!

Carousel -- Week Ending 30th March 2007

Highlights of the week ending 30th March 2007.

Daily Outfit -- 29th March 2007

Lunch avec Bella at a Japanese restaurant.

Styling Without Ironing

“Hi Gala, I was wondering whether you could include some tips on professional styling when attempting to avoid clothes that need ironing. I don’t hate ironing, but am intrinsically lazy and simply never get around to it. Thus, a lot of my work clothes are either waiting to be ironed or don’t require ironing but are really humdrum and lead to the fashion doldrums. Help please!”

Daily Outfit -- 28th March 2007

I strongly suspect that I am a nut. Pink afro wigs are like that.

Urban Bohemian

I thought some of you might find these pictures stylistically inspiring…

Gala's Guide To Melbourne

Melbourne can be a difficult city for visitors. While the main streets are obvious to everyone, they’re not where the really interesting things are. Melbourne requires a bit of effort — think of it as a treasure hunt. Go into weird alleyways, peer into arcades, allow yourself time to wander through & really experience the place.

Erica Jong's Birthday

Erica Jong ages another year. Here’s how you can celebrate…

Little Things

I think life should be made up of small delicacies. I don’t mean little cakes every two hours — though, of course, that would be pretty nice — I mean tiny things which propel you forward & invigorate you.

Vlog 008

A video of me doing ridiculous things, including prancing around on the beach, eating a strawberry tart, & a guided tour of my closet.

Quote of the Day -- 24th March 2007

Coco Chanel.

Possible Style Icons

I’m not 100% sure on either of these girls yet, but I think they have definite potential.

Ballet Do's & Don'ts

I haven’t been to the ballet since I was in school, so it was a very exciting experience. For those of you who may be in a similar situation in the near future, I thought I would give you my tips on how to do it properly.

Carousel -- Week Ending 23rd March 2007

Highlights of the week ending 23rd March 2007.

Daily Outfit -- 22nd March 2007

Going to the beach, Galaverse style!

Acceptance

Tell us something about yourself which has taken you years to accept or like.

i.D.U.D. #002 -- Batman Power!

Lesley dressed as Batman & what she wrote totally made my day.

Totally Addicted To Leggings

What are you guilty of over-wearing? Please tell me I’m not the only one!

I'm So Jealous!

“I really think you should do an article on dealing with jealousy. I just got hit really badly
today with jealousy since my friend got accepted to this school and I got rejected from mine, even though the ones I applied to are way harder to get into. I just feel like it is unfair since she has not-so-great grades and doesn’t try, while I put my all into everything I do and have straight A’s. It’s hard to explain. But the green-eyed-monster affects us all sometimes…”

i.D.U.D. #002 -- More Pictures!

Photos of Jenny as Peter Pan & Nana as a rococo court lady!

Primp My Ride

“I have an article idea for you me dear. Pimp my ride Gala-stylezzz! Please? The Toyota Corona I got for my 30th is sooooooo lame and has no sass compared to my old Peugeot that gave up. Help me make my ease-ey pease-ey Japanese-ey car cool?”

More International Dress Up Day #002 Photos & A Video!

Annaloren dressed as the Queen of Hearts & Anna Rose made a video of herself in costume! Yay!

Photos Photos Photos (i.D.U.D. #002)!

Zara Rose dressed as Little Red Riding Hood (in the snow, even!), while Opium took some creative license with the character of Strawberry Shortcake…

More Photos From International Dress-Up Day #002!

Courtney dressed as a character from Pride & Prejudice, ‘Tine dressed as Maria Callas in Tosca & Vanessa does a great impression of Dorian Gray!

International Dress-Up Day #002 Pictures!

Fred makes a fabulous Dr John H. Watson (& tells a story to boot) while smokeandwine looks way too awesome as Garth from Wayne’s World.

International Dress-Up Day #002

For International Dress-Up Day #002, I dressed up as my favourite character of all time — Witch Baby, a character created by Francesca Lia Block.

Worried About International Dress-Up Day?

I know that some of you are probably still fretting over your costume, but I just thought I’d give you a nudge in the right direction.
This is what I wore for Hallowe’en last year. (I was Salvador Dali, of course!)

February 2007

What Does Your Clothing Say About You?

Have you ever thought about what message your clothing is projecting & what it says about you? What story do you think your outfit today told the world?

How To Tie A Turban

I just had a couple of requests for instructions on how to tie a turban, so I made you a video!

Daily Outfit -- 26th February 2007

It has been one of those days.

Bags & Wallets Which Make Me Coo

I love bags.

Novelty T-Shirts

Please, if you own one of these t-shirts, or your beloved has one hanging in the wardrobe — do your city a favour & dispose of it.

How Do I Choose An Eyeshadow Which Suits Me?

“My mother is not one of those women who wears a lot of make-up. The most she’ll ever wear is foundation and powder. Unfortunately for me, that means she can’t give me tips or tricks on choosing or applying make-up. How do you choose an eyeshadow and once you’ve found one, how do you go about wearing it? Sounds silly, but I’m desperate for help.”

Style Report: Melbourne 02/07

If under the age of 20, a big, black, back-combed nest with a huge combover fringe is de rigeur…

Things To Do Today

A few ideas to keep you from obsessively refreshing your Livejournal friends page or reading Myspace comments to people you don’t even like!

Cleaning Out Your Wardrobe

I can’t tell you how much better I feel to have done a clean-out. I’m a Virgo, & organisation totally thrills me, but I doubt the joy of the exercise is only felt by 1/12th of the population.

New, Improved, User-Defined iCiNG?

Really, I want to know your thoughts. How do you think I could improve iCiNG as a project?

Carousel -- Week Ending 23rd February 2007

Highlights from the week ending 23rd February 2007.

Buying Gifts For Teenage Girls

“I am off to a young cousin’s birthday festivity this weekend with no clue of what to get her for her 14th birthday. She is an aspiring and adorable trendsetter, with stacks of Vogue and dress sketches around her young room. However, in the ever competitive world of high school it can be difficult to make a mark with your own fashion. What could I buy her that she would appreciate, adore and wear? I would like her to step away from the name brands and explore the endless world of personal fashion… but at such a young age how can I help?”

Sofa Coppola's Apartment

Sofia Coppola’s apartment in Soho, New York City.

How To Pack A Suitcase

“More specifically, how do you decide ahead of time what to bring with you on a trip? I decide so spur of the moment that I often end up over-packing. How do you pack when you are unsure of occasions you might hit or moods you might be in?”

iCiNG Presents: Nicole Jenkins of Circa Vintage

A video of Nicole Jenkins from Circa Vintage, speaking about how to buy good vintage clothing, how to care for it, how to work it into your modern wardrobe & more!

Engineer's Boots

“Where can I buy the best men’s engineers boots (sometimes known as biker boots, but I want round toe, non-harness straps: single strap only, flat-ish vibram soles). I would ideally like to know who is the old school company who make these… I want great design and manufacturers integrity, with mail-order-ability from the colonies.”

More International Dress Up Day Photos!

More pictures of participants!

Learning How To Dress Up

“I’m completely sick of dressing down and jeans and such. I want to start wearing skirts and dresses and dress pants. I’d like to stick to black and red and white if possible. Any suggestions on where to start with completely re-vamping my wardrobe?”

Style Tips -- 19th February 2007

Style tips.

International Dress-Up Day!

Here are some pictures from other people who took part…

International Dress-Up Day #001

My outfit!

Daily Outfit -- 17th February 2007

I’m doing a kind of Jean Seberg thing with this new hair. This is what I wore to visit the Prahran Markets.

Style Icons: Carrie Bradshaw

Carrie is a writer with an incredible wardrobe who is on the search for love. Not “on the search for love” like those women who are desperate & obsessed with cats, but on the search for love in that cute, fun, optimistic Amelie kind of way.

How To Throw A Fantastic Party With Gala!

I have finally finished my first ever e-book! (So exciting.) It’s called “How To Throw A Fantastic Party” & it is 39 pages of awesome inspiration for your next shindig.

International Dress-Up Day This Saturday!

Just thought I would remind you that the first INTERNATIONAL DRESS-UP DAY is THIS SATURDAY! I’m going to dress like a love casualty.

Carousel -- Week Ending 16th February 2007

Highlights of the week ending 16th February 2007.

Style Survey

Daily Outfit -- 14th February 2007

Channelling Mary-Kate Olsen

Trendmill

Last Minute Valentine's Day Idea

How To Buy A Winter Coat

Vlog 005

A stop-motion video of me leaping around!

Wishlist #001

How To Wear Layers Without Looking Like A Crazy Bag Lady

This article is in response to the lovely S.‘s question, which was phrased something like, “how do I wear layers without looking mental?”.

Matching Personality To Fragrance

I love to look through the list of Demeter fragrances & imagine myself wearing them, but often I think that I would have to be a certain type of person to wear, say, Stable (hay, muck & animal sweat) or Thunderstorm (humid air & soil). Here then, are some of my scent suggestions for various people I hold in high esteem.

International Dress-Up Day Vote #1!

Thanks for all your enthusiasm, kittens! We now need to decide on a theme. I’m going to set the date for NEXT SATURDAY, which is the 17th of February.

Improving Your Life With Feng Shui (Or: Why I Bought Goldfish Today)

Here’s a brief overview of feng shui concepts, & some easy ways to implement them.

Carousel -- Week Ending 9th February 2007

Highlights of the week ending 9th February 2007.

Vlog 004

Opera in the park, swings, graffiti, trams, Chinese dragons & a crazy busker.

What Are You Wearing?

What do you have on & how do you feel about it?

Questions Answered With The Power Of Science!

Unfortunately, this is a problem where I was absolutely stumped for an answer. Haircare is a source of great confusion to me, but at the same time, I wanted to find you an answer!

An International Dress-Up Party

Basically, my idea is that one day a month, anyone who wanted to be involved would dress in a way which incorporated a previously decided theme. The ultimate aim, other than having fun, would be to take a photo of yourself “on theme” & then I would publish all the pictures I received. Instant internet fame!

The Perfect Roadtrip

Every now & then when your life gets complicated & the weasels start closing in, the only real cure is to load up on heinous chemicals & then drive like a bastard from Hollywood to Las Vegas. To relax, as it were, in the womb of the desert sun. Just roll the roof back & screw it on, grease the face with white tanning butter & move out with the music at top volume, & at least a pint of ether. ... Here’s how to have a great roadtrip.

Daily Outfit -- 4th February 2007

Dressing Up

Five Fashion Crimes & How To Avoid Them

I read a “letter to the editor” yesterday from some crotchetty old man saying that he was sick of being berated for wearing crocs & that they were the only thing comfortable enough for him to walk in. That’s fine if you’re ANCIENT but if you’re NOT then get some REAL SHOES!

Accessorising For Men

“I’ve got a boyfriend who’s not altogether a bad dresser – what he wears is what the majority of boys in my (very warm) country dress in: big tees/polo tees paired with jeans or berms, with Nike dunks, Adidas superstars or flip-flops. But I’d love to see him dress up just a little bit more, with a bit of accessorising maybe. What would you suggest? And how would you suggest integrating these items into his daily wardrobe?”

Bindi Revival

The more thought I give it, the more I am convinced that a bindi is the ultimate fashion accessory. They’re small, cheap & come in about a million different varieties.

How To Beat Problem Skin Into Submission

“I was wondering if you had any advice or product recommendations for those of us with “problem” skin. I still get acne at the age of 27, and though I have been searching for years, I can’t seem to find anything to control it.”

Melissa

New shoes.

What Do You Spend Money On?

Everyone has different priorities when it comes to spending money. Some people spend up on almost everything, while others will pay as little as they can as often as they can.

Inspiring desks

Great workspace pictures & how to make your desk area more personalised.

Carousel -- Week Ending 2nd February 2007

Highlights of the week ending 2nd February 2007.

Valentine's Day Treats

Okay. I know Valentine’s Day is a major sore point with a lot of people. Capitalist holiday, blah blah blah, yeah I know. I used to be part of the anti-Valentine’s brigade myself. I have since realised that being against anything is a huge waste of energy which I do my very best not to participate in.

January 2007

Signature Scents

Coco Chanel said that you should wear perfume wherever you want to be kissed, & when Marilyn Monroe was asked what she wore to bed, she replied “two drops of Chanel No.5”. Of course, both statements were excellent P.R. for Chanel’s perfumes. I, personally, have never understood the appeal of Chanel No. 5. It’s lacking something.

These, however, are perfect — which is why I own them…

Daily Outfit -- 31st January 2007

I’m going for a Parisian theme recently. I think it’s because of the black manicure — I feel that the only people who really carry this off effectively are either the French, goths or emo kids (& I would prefer to feel French).

Living A More Celebratory Life

Here are some days I celebrate: the how & the why.

Style Icons: Diana Vreeland

Diana Vreeland was an incredible woman. Born in 1906 in Paris, she spent most of her life in New York & rose to acclaim for her work as fashion editor at Harper’s Bazaar & later at Vogue. Her eccentricies are what make her so interesting to me.

How To Dress Up A School Uniform

How, indeed? School uniforms are ugly, unflattering & a violation of rights. I wore a uniform for my entire school-going career, so please believe me when I say that I feel your pain.

Makeup Basics Part Two -- Makeup Application

This is part two of my three-part series on makeup basics.

Fashion Report: Summer/Autumn 2007

Stop the presses! My personal fashion report leading through to the middle of the year. I call this the “cyborg coquette”, combining the best elements of the 40’s, 60’s & the future.

Super Street Style or Why These People Look So Damn Good

Some of my favourite recent looks from Flickr & Hel-Looks. Daily outfits with a twist, yessir.

Delicious Cocktails

This article was suggested to me by the inimitable Mary Bee, who I met in San Francisco (after many missed encounters at Burning Man) & then proceeded to sit with her in the sun & drink pomegranate cocktails.

How To Walk In High Heels

Wandering around the city on my lunch break today, I noticed that many girls seemed to be having quite a bit of difficulty walking in their high heels. Have you considered writing an article on how to walk in high heels gracefully &/or with the least amount of pain?

How To Age Gracefully

I recently had an email from a woman who is nearing 60 years old. She is in incredible shape (I should know, I saw the photos) & has great style but is caught in the trap of getting older & being unsure what to do about it.

How Wearing Make-Up Affects Your Career

Normally I wouldn’t make a post out of a single link, but this flabbergasted me so much I had to.

Carousel -- Week Ending 26th January 2007

Highlights of the week ending 26th January 2007.

How To Throw A Tea-Party

The first step is to get excited about the prospect of your tea party! (Some books that may aid this process are “Let’s Have A Tea Party” by Emilie Barnes & “I’m A Little Teapot” by Iza Trapani.)

Dressing For A Wedding

I just want to gloat about my stylish readers for a second. This is all very shrouded in secrecy — they didn’t want me to give out any details about them.

Shorts For Men

It’s summer and I want to wear shorts, but only feel stylish in pants. Is there any way around this dilemma?

Daily Outfit -- 24th January 2007

This is what I wore to buy a lamp & a salad!

Image Consultation Winner!

Thank you for all the entries! I wish I had more vouchers to give away, but hopefully my write-up of Rod’s experiences will inspire you to give image consultation a go anyway!

Gold Lamé Leggings

Your thoughts?

Winter Lust

Here is my small tribute to the chilly weather some of you are experiencing… or are supposed to be experiencing. Isn’t global warming a blast?!

Daily Outfit -- 23rd January 2007

Didn’t feel like getting too dressed up today, & I haven’t left the house except to go to Starbucks!

Trends For 2007 and How To Avoid Looking Like A Fashion Victim

Of course with the dawn of a new year, there is a lot of babble about what’s going to be “in” this year. The thing is, even if you loathe trends & fashion dictates in general, you’re still going to see this stuff in stores. It may even replace the things you’re used to buying, meaning you are forced to incorporate this “trendy stuff” into your wardrobe. I thought I would write a piece on things you’re likely to see, & how to work them in without looking tragic.

What Are You Wearing?

No, not in the heavy-breathing-down-the-phone sense! What do you have on — clothing, perfume, shoes, make-up?

Choosing Sunglasses That Suit You

Buying sunglasses can be a thrill or a trial. The most important part of buying sunglasses is knowing your face shape . Different frames suit different faces.

Cupcake mailing list

Vlog 003

Trapeze!!!

What Goes and What Clashes?

What clashes? What colours don’t go together? What can’t you wear with what? Stripes and polka dots? Stripes and more stripes? Mixing patterns?

Makeup Basics Part One -- Skincare

Being a guy I don’t usually wear makeup, but on occasion when going out I’ll throw some mascara on and maybe some nail polish. I like to be exuberant at times and was thinking of getting some eye shadow too. But in honesty I know next to nothing about the basics of makeup. Can you enlighten me?

First Impressions Count and the Value of Image Consultation

I was recently invited by a friend of mine, Rod, to attend his image consultation at First Impressions Count in Brunswick. He was given a voucher by a friend at a barbeque & thought it would be an interesting experiment, & I was keen to go along & see how it went. We caught a train out to the suburbs (the horror!) in the pursuit of professional styling.

Daily Outfit -- 19th January 2007

This is what I wore to the Midsumma Fest last night in Federation Square.

Carousel -- Week Ending 19th January 2007

Highlights for the week ending 19th January 2007.

Daily Outfit -- 18th January 2007

This is my I’m-a-slacker-&-I’m-not-planning-on-leaving-the-house-today outfit. Though I might go out & get some coffee soon.

How To Choose A Flattering Haircut

I recently received an email from my friend who is getting her hair cut tomorrow afternoon & wanted to know how to choose a good haircut.

The Ultimate Guide To Unnatural Hair Colouring

My hair has been pink, purple, jade-green, red, black & white… & all within the last three years. I’m often asked how do I get my hair so (insert-colour-here) & what products I use, so I thought I would give you some pointers.

Marie Antoinette Style

The clothing was as amazing as the colour-scheme & the cakes were incredible. Anyway, I really liked the styling, so thought I would give you a quick guide on how to doll yourself up like Marie Antoinette.

Akif Hakan Celebi

I discovered Akif Hakan Celebi’s photography via the Foto Decadent community the other day. A lot of his work is fashion photography, & he has a great eye for textures, colours & shapes.

Creepy doll shoes

Obscenely creepy, but awesome, which is quite a good combination in my opinion.

More Past Outfits

I thought I’d write up some more of my outfits — what worked, what didn’t, & how I’d change it if I was going to wear it again.

How To Disguise A Stomach

The one problem I seem to have fashion wise is pies. I have eaten a few too many and now have a pie shaped tummy.

Casual Suit Jackets

I see alot of hipsters wearing suit jackets without the rest of the suit. Is this just wrong? Or are there certain conditions in which this can be pulled off?

The New Eyebrow

As you know, I am not the greatest trend follower, but I am delighted to report that the strong eyebrow is “in”! I have always been a fan of this look (as my own eyebrows will testify) & I’m very happy that I will be seeing more of it on the street.

Daily Outfit -- 13th January 2007

This is a strange outfit for me. I felt like a stylish digital spy or something.

Daily Outfit -- 12th January 2007

This is my Tank-Girl-who-reads-fashion-magazines ensemble. Ha!

Carousel -- Week Ending 12th January 2007

Highlights for the week ending 12th January 2007.

Vlog 002

Graffiti in Melbourne & New Year’s Eve fireworks.

Frisky-Wear For Fashion Enthusiasts

Who says leather, PVC & latex should be relegated to the bedroom? Whilst normally the domain of hairy men in thongs or goth culture (are the two things really that different?), there are definitely some great things, especially in the accessory department, that can be incorporated into your wardrobe for some unusual flair.

The Definition Of Real Style (Or: How I Learned To Stop Worrying and Love iCiNG)

“Etiquette are for those without manners, in the same way as fashion is for those without style.” — Coco Chanel

Questions Please!

Attention men! Your clothing doesn’t have to be boring!

Style Essentials and The Balancing Act

Here’s a very “hypothetical” question for you. How would you start
over if some tragedy befell your wardrobe and you were left with
formal gowns, lingerie, an old pair of jeans that stopped looking good
at least a year ago and a skirt that you’ve loved almost to death?

Daily Outfit -- 6th January 2007

I’ve been wearing this for a few days now actually. It’s been around 100 degrees fahrenheit & this is so comfortable it’s difficult to wear anything else.

Difficult Boys, Dressing Them For Occasions and How To Buy A Suit

Please help me. I need some fashion advice for my boyfriend PRONTO. My boyfriend and I are going to a flurry of weddings (mostly semi-formal) over the next few months and he has literally NOTHING to wear.

Carousel -- Week Ending 5th January 2007

Highlights for the week ending 5th January 2007.

Popularity

Last week I received an email from somebody asking me how I got to know so many people.

Tall With A Long Torso?

I often find myself flipping through fashion magazines that point out ideas for shapes, etc. & what is best to wear… But they NEVER EVER have anything about long torsoed tall women.

Style and Fashion Resolutions -- 2007

Along with the normal New Year’s Resolutions, this year I thought I should come up with some style & fashion resolutions too.

Flattering Photographs

If you would like to look good in a photograph, whether it’s for an online dating site, a new Livejournal icon or to give your parents for Christmas, here are my tips.

The Benefits of Daily Outfit photos, part two

Have you started photographing your clothing yet? I hope so.

December 2006

Vlog 001

My first ever video log!

Quote of the Day -- 29th December 2006

Ann Richards

Some Past Outfits

Yesterday I posted about the benefits of taking daily outfit photos. I’ve been looking through my old ones, & thought I would sum a few up.

Daily Outfit -- 26th December 2006 and The Benefits of Daily Outfit photos

I first started posting daily outfit photos in October 2005 (seems like a very, very long time ago) after seeing other people’s efforts online. Initially I took & posted the photographs for the hell of it, but then I realised there was actual value in recording what I was wearing on a regular basis.

Daily Outfit -- 20th December 2006

I also carried my Hello Kitty lunchbox but forgot to get a photo, oops~!

Kissable lips

Kissing is one of my favourite activities. I have spent serious time investigating products & tricks to make it better! Seriously! Other than brushing twice a day, using teeth whitening treatments & flossing, it’s all in the lips.

Quote of the Day -- 21st December 2006

Coco Chanel

Incredibly excellent and fanciful jewellery

I love all this stuff, I guess primarily because it reminds me of the clunky, bizarre, neon (see also: AWESOME) jewellery I wore as a child.

Quote of the Day -- 17th December 2006

Diana Vreeland

Fashion Help for Recovering Goths

I guess the first issue would be for ‘recovering goths’ like myself. “How to give up an all-black wardrobe.” ... I’ve been wearing all black since 1985.

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