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Have you ever noticed that some people seem to find new lovers and life partners with ease? It’s as if they snap their fingers and suddenly, a slew of eligible suitors are at their door (and in their DMs). What’s up with that?! These people aren’t necessarily more attractive, wealthy, or more intelligent than you. What they do have is the right MINDSET… And that acts like a beautiful beacon, calling in the right people.

If you’ve been dating for a long time, you know that there’s more to it than just putting up a sexy photo and waiting for the matches to roll in. You could do that, sure… But you don’t want just anyone. You want the right one. And you’ve been doing this for long enough to know that you don’t want to repeat your old patterns.

How do we break old patterns? By doing something different. By changing the way we feel about who we are and then expressing that. If you keep using the same old profile, you’ll keep hooking the same kinds of people. And isn’t it time to move on from there?

With your new attitude in place, I’ll show you how to beam that out into the world. You’ll discover how to get clear on what you really want, call in the right person, take beautiful photos, write a great profile, screen your candidates, and even make conversation that will get you all the way to the first date! (Plus so much more. See below!)

Everyone’s beauty is unique and radiant: it’s just not always easy to see your own. One of my talents is in seeing the beauty in people and highlighting it, and that’s what I’m going to do with you. You’re going to see yourself the way I see you. And when you do, the way you share yourself — both online and in real life — will completely transform.

Curriculum

MANIFESTING MINDSET
How do you slip into the place where things flow easily to you? In order to call in a romantic or play partner, it’s important to put yourself into the right state of mind. I’m going to show you exactly how to do this, and here’s a secret: you access that mindset by using your body! (Crazy, right?! I can’t wait to show you!)

FANTASY FOCUS
One of the most essential parts of attracting incredible things into our lives is to shift our focus away from what we don’t want, and on to what we do want. We’ll investigate the way the language we use attracts and repels others, plus expand our scope of desire to something a little deeper than “tall, dark and handsome!” (It’ll blow your mind.)

PHOTOSHOOT FABULOUSNESS
You’re gorgeous, but sometimes it’s tricky to capture that in a photo. If you’ve always struggled with taking a flattering selfie, I am about to rock your world! You’ll discover my simple (and free) lighting trick that will illuminate your best features and allow your true beauty to come out, plus every other technique I employ to take killer pictures. The best thing? You don’t need anything more complicated than a phone to take badass photos!

DESCRIPTIVE DELICIOUSNESS
If you find yourself flummoxed every time you go to fill out a profile, that’s all about to change. I’m going to provide you with a fantastic framework that will describing yourself easy, and even… Dare I say it… Fun! There’s an art to this, and I’m about to provide you with a whole new palette to play with.

THE FINE ART OF NOT GIVING A FUCK
Co-dependent? Hungry for validation or attention? Do you have a habit of going on dates with people you’re not even attracted to, just because you want to feel good? In this section, we’ll discover how to squirm out of those old habits that keep us feeling stucky (that’s “stuck” + “yucky”!) so you can approach dating from a place of strength and clarity.

HOW TO ATTRACT A NEW “TYPE”
If you’re sick of attracting the same old crew of “bad boys”, emotionally unavailable babes, cute slackers, or dudes that remind you WAY too much of your dad, that’s all about to change. How can we change the beliefs and heal the old stories that keep us going back for more, even when it hurts? I got you, boo.

DISMANTLING CYNICISM
For those of you who have been swiping for a long time, I’m going to show you how to clean up your energy so that you stop associating dating apps with a neverending procession of unsolicited dick pics, ghosting, and wasted time. Because the truth is that we always get what we expect!

FIRST DATE PREP
Once you’ve met someone promising, that’s when it really starts to get exciting! I wouldn’t hang you out to dry at this crucial moment! You’re going to get my essential tips on what to wear, how to make conversation, and how to tell if you really have chemistry. You can take it from there…

Why choose me?

My name is Gala Darling. I’ve been teaching radical self love for the past decade and my results speak for themselves. With the help of my work, women have left abusive relationships, gotten sober, pulled themselves out of depression, and completely changed their lives. I am deeply proud of every single one of them.

I’m the author of the bestselling Radical Self-Love: A Guide To Loving Yourself And Living Your Dreams (Hay House), which has been published in four other languages. My blog, galadarling.com, has been going strong for 11 years, and features over 2700 articles dedicated to inspiring and uplifting women. I hold workshops, lead international retreats (featured in Vogue), and regularly travel the world speaking to excitable crowds.

I have been featured in The New York Times, Teen Vogue, New York Post, Elle, Cosmopolitan, The Daily Telegraph, and The Age, as well as interviewed on CBS, ABC News, and Hay House Radio. I’ve spoken about radical self love at SXSW Interactive and dozens of other events across the world, in addition to lecturing at NYU (twice). My TED Talk has been viewed over 236,000 times.

My approach to radical self love works not just because I see your pure blazing magnificence, although I certainly do! I am also a life-long learner, and it’s my passion and pleasure to teach you what I’ve discovered. I love to take a theory and test it, so that you can benefit from my toolkit of techniques.

The lessons in Metaphysical Matchmaker are methods I’ve been exploring for 15 years, with enormous success. I’ve used these skills to attract true love, life partners, play partners, and incredible friendships. I can’t wait to show you what works!

Beyond that, sometimes you just need someone to make you feel like what you want is possible. I am that person. I have seen such significant transformations — both in myself and the people I’ve worked with — that even though I don’t know your story, I know for sure that you can have whatever you want… And that includes love, sex, romance, and a damn good time. Believe that.

FAQ

Q. I’m not heterosexual. Is this class inclusive?
YES! Your gender and orientation have no bearing on whether this class will work for you. Cleaning up your thoughts around love, attraction, and sex will benefit you no matter who you are or what you’re into.

Q. I’m not looking for “the One”, I’m just looking for people to have a good time with. Is this class for me?
Absolutely! It doesn’t matter whether you’re looking for Ms Right or Ms Right Now, these principles apply to everyone. In Metaphysical Matchmaker, you’ll discover how to call in someone that makes you feel good. Whether it’s for a night or a lifetime is up to you!

Q. When does Metaphysical Matchmaker start?
Immediately!

Q. What’s the format?
When you sign up, you’ll receive an email* welcoming you to Metaphysical Matchmaker. Then you’ll receive a series of 30 lessons, each one containing an activity, a prompt, or some homework. You’ll receive every piece of the class by email — that way, there are no logins or passwords to remember, and you get the information right in your inbox every day.

* If you don’t get your welcome email, check your Spam and Trash folders! If there’s still no trace, email us so we can track it down.

Q. What is your refund policy?
As per industry standard, I don’t offer refunds on programs that can be downloaded and viewed.