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We Are Becoming The Men We Wanted To Marry

A few months ago, I received this email from Crosby. It was so amazing that it brought tears to my eyes, & I wanted to share it — I was just waiting for the right occasion. I think this is a perfect illustration of RADICAL SELF LOVE, & radical self love above all else. Thanks […]

What Do You Want To Do Before 2008 Ends?

What do you want to achieve before the end of the year? You have 55 days to make something amazing happen! By the start of 2009, my gift to myself will be having my three-year visa for the United States sorted out. SO EXCITED! New York is where I want to be. It’s my favourite […]

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want Me To Get Tattoos!

“I desperately want to get a large tattoo on each of my arms, not quite as big as yours. The designs are beautiful, made up of things that are really important in my life, like symbols of my family, freedom and creativity. The only trouble is that my boyfriend utterly despises tattoos and has said […]

What Time Are We Upon And Where Do I Belong?

When I was a fashion blogger, no one in the industry liked me. I didn’t dress the way they did, and when we were at events, I always felt like I didn’t measure up. Even if I had walked out of my apartment feeling great about my outfit, something about being in a room full of […]

Carousel: Too Needy To Love, Faux-Feminist Men, And Tumblr Witches

Dear God, it’s August. Let’s not talk about it. I’m desperately clinging to the last few days of summer, despite the persistent thunderstorms circling NYC for the next week! Here are some of the craziest, weirdest, most interesting, and thought-provoking pieces I’ve found over the last month or so. Enjoy! Daddies, “Dates,” and the Girlfriend […]

Defining “Sexy”: What I Learned From Taking My Clothes Off Onstage

Portrait of the writer before stripping on stage for the first time. When you’re asked to describe yourself to a perfect stranger, what do you say? What labels do you use? And perhaps most importantly, which labels do you dream of being able to use, but feel like they would be impossible to embody? We all […]

On Blogging: A Decade Later!

This December will mark ten years of galadarling.com. A decade! In the blogging world, this is almost unheard of. Most people throw in the towel after a year and a half. And I’ve been blogging for a lot longer than that! I learned how to code websites in Notepad when I was 13, and ever […]

5 Ways To Stop Obsessing Over Your Crush

Falling for someone can be so exciting, but it can also be intensely crazy-making. Those of us who pride ourselves on being relatively sane, stable and independent can contort into obsessive maniacs with very little provocation. It’s a thrill, but if you are someone who enjoys being in full control of your essential faculties, it […]

Plug Into Your Weirdness!

Stop trying so hard to impress others. Stop looking to everyone else for inspiration. The most fulfilling art you’ll ever create comes from your essential core, and isn’t just a regurgitation of what everyone else is doing. The only way to do that is step away from all your influences and spend some time alone, […]

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